AS most people here have said, you really don't know what you would do until it happens.
Sometimes you surprise yourself by doing miraculous things.
Sometimes you surprise yourself by not doing something very much less than miraculous.
It all depends on where your mind is at the time.
One thing is very much more common however, and that is, if the other person or people in the situation are people you love, children, family, dog? then your first reaction is usually to dive in and get them out, even in impossible situations.
I guess in this instance, all it means is, he wasn't madly in love with the pilot. That's understandable.