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OceanBlue64
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10 Sep 2008 11:10am
CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL WHO WERE BORN IN THE 1940's, 50's, 60's and 70's !

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us and lived in houses made of asbestos..

They took aspirin, ate blue cheese, raw egg products, loads of bacon and processed meat, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes or cervical cancer.

Then after that trauma, our baby cots were covered with bright coloured lead-based paints.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets or shoes, not to mention, the risks we took hitchhiking.

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags and we went round the streets on Go-carts made from old pram wheels & bits of wood.

We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.

Take away food was limited to fish and chips, no pizza shops, McDonalds, KFC, Subway or Nandos.

Even though all the shops closed at 6.00pm and didn't open on the weekends, somehow we didn't starve to death!

We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this.

We could collect old drink bottles and cash them in at the corner store and buy Toffees, Gobstoppers, Bubble Gum and some bangers to blow up frogs with.

We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank soft drinks with sugar in it, but we weren't overweight because......

WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K.

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of old prams and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. We built tree houses and dens and played in river beds with matchbox cars.

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo Wii, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 999 channels on SKY,

no video/dvd films,

no mobile phones, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat rooms..........WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no
Lawsuits from these accidents.

Only girls had pierced ears!

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.

You could only buy Easter Eggs and Hot Cross Buns at Easter time...

We were given catapults for our 10th birthdays,

We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them!

Mum didn't have to go to work to help dad make ends meet!

RUGBY and CRICKET had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!! Getting into the team was based on MERIT

Our teachers used to hit us with canes and gym shoes and bully's always ruled the playground at school.

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of.

They actually sided with the law!

Our parents didn't invent stupid names for their kids like 'Kiora' and 'Blade' and 'Ridge' and 'Vanilla'

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned HOW TO

DEAL WITH IT ALL!

And YOU are one of them!

CONGRATULATIONS!

You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for our own good.

And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were.

airhead
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10 Sep 2008 9:38am
Ain't that the truth...
theDoctor
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10 Sep 2008 11:48am
^^^ not really, it was also the people born in these years which implemented the changes they like to complain so much about now.
grumplestiltskin
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10 Sep 2008 10:00am
I guess if you asked the kids of today (especially my kids), they would say that those things are proof of why we are always wrong
NotWal
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10 Sep 2008 2:27pm
Is that like "Congratulations, you are one of the lucky few to survive" or "Congratulations, you had the luck to live well"?

Also, what's wrong with eating tuna out of a can?
ka43
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10 Sep 2008 3:26pm
And whats wrong with drinking water out of a hose or tap???

Its free and beats paying mega bucks for bottled. Im trying to teach my daughter all these type of things and Im winning I think
big gill
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10 Sep 2008 2:17pm
i do alot of these things


technology has ruined most of em
easty
easty
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10 Sep 2008 6:08pm
"We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no
Lawsuits from these accidents."

Was talking about this the other day with my wife - when we were at school it seemed normal for at least 1 person in each class to have an arm or leg in plaster (covered in get well or rude messages). You just don't see that many these days. Either kid's bones are getting stronger from calcium added to everything, or the kids of today just need to HTFU and get out there and climb to the very top of every tree, skate that steep hill, jump off the roof, etc.
Gonewindsurfing247
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10 Sep 2008 4:20pm
You forgot:

And when wearing Ug boots meant keeping your feet warm and was not regarded as high fashion.
easty
easty
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10 Sep 2008 6:27pm
Gonewindsurfing247 said...

You forgot:

And when wearing Ug boots meant keeping your feet warm and was not regarded as high fashion.


Got mine on now (and not for fashion!)

NotWal
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11 Sep 2008 7:23am
Yep there is indeed something wrong when primary schools suspend kids for doing cartwheels in the playground. Its all about duty of care, liability, insurance and cowardice.

The root difficulty seems to be that its much easier to see the harm in a broken limb than the harm in a stunted spirit. Lawyers and bureaucrats, bean counters, and budgets - what evil has man wrought.
MikeyS
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11 Sep 2008 10:06am
Too true. Too true.

But there was a kid who went to our primary school who was really skinny and walked like he was on stilts. He had polio when he was a baby. He didn't get the polio vaccine that every kid gets for free these days.

And there was a girl in the neighbourhood who I used to see being pushed around in a wheelchair at the local shopping centre. She didn't have any arms or legs, just stumps. Her mother took thalidomide for morning sickness when she was preganant. Neither the drug company nor the doctors didn't know any better. We always smiled at her politely.

I did know kids in the neighbourhood who weren't that bright, but I wasn't aware at the time that ingestion of lead based paints inhibited brain development.

We used to play in the stormwater drains, but were lucky that it didn't rain when were were in there. We were luckier than that kid in Melbourne whose body was found in the river by a passing cyclist. He must have shared the same sense of fascination as adventure as us, only he wasn't so lucky.

We used to fry ourselves on the hot concrete in the middle of summer with no sunscreen. The kids with skin that tanned did OK- they just turned black. But my brother and I, with our freckly Anglo skin used to get so badly sunburned that out skin would blister, then peel off in sheets. Only later did I and my parents learn that I am in the highest risk category for skin cancer and that the damage done early in life may take decades to develop into cancer. So now I get my skin checked every year 'cos I don't want to die of skin cancer if I can help it. And I go crook at the daughter who inherited my skin if she goes outside without a hat and sunscreen.

We played with firecrackers and skyrockets and made slingshots that would shoot a ball bearing through a thin sheet of steel. And at Eastertime, we'd watch the Royal Children's Hospital Appeal (I still remember the year they first broke the one million dollar barrier) and they'd go around talking to the kids in the burns unit.

When my sister was about 11 she did try to overdose by taking 3 Disprin, while my brother and I taunted her. We were so mean to her. It was lucky there wasn't anything stronger in the medicine cabinet that she could have taken.

As a parent, I encourage my girls to take risks. Kids can be quietly suffocated when wrapped up in cotton wool. My youngest daughter goes whitewater slalom kayaking, while I watch from the bank quietly shtting myself. And both daughters go horseriding. The ambulance has been to the club to take two girls off to hospital in the past few weeks after falls, the one last Sunday hurt her back and shoulder and wasn't able to move her toes. Gee, the ambo's took such a long time to get the back board and cervical collar on her. I've just heard this morning that she is OK but they did keep her in hospital overnight. It was Christopher Reeves who played Superman, wasn't it?

And as a parent, I would do anything, absolutely anything, in my power to make sure that two of the most precious things in my life get to enjoy a safe, healthy and long life. The death, or perhaps even worse, the maiming or permanent disfigurement of a child must be one the greatest motivators to promote change. Even if that comes at some lesser cost.



hoop
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11 Sep 2008 8:30am
Sook
MikeyS
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11 Sep 2008 1:02pm
hoop said...

Sook


Yes, Hoop, parenthood can do that to a person.

What did you get for Father's Day.
ka43
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11 Sep 2008 4:51pm
I dont think I couldve expressed the same feelings as Mikeys so well.
Spot on bloke!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OceanBlue64
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11 Sep 2008 8:26pm
I agree with Mike totally.
What I was trying to get across with the original post (it was part of an email I received) was that I think things have gone way too far.
I read recently that playing footy, jump rope and ball sports at some schools has be banned during lunchtimes cos they are scared they will get sued. No wonder kids are getting fatter and lazier.
They also say the rise in children health issues ie asthma etc can be attributed to the fact that we tend to 'sterilise' everything these days. Let the kids eat dirt for gods sake lol. Help them build up their immune system.
Surely we have to get to the stage where common sense takes over and we get away from this stupid litigious type of society we have become.
stoked2surf
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11 Sep 2008 9:14pm
i am so happy someone is speaking the truth!

im 17 so i happen to be one of the kids born in the early 90's and i can honestly say that i've missed out on so much

i grew up watching movies from the 70's and 80's and it seems that the people born of my generation dont have any freedom compared to previous decades.
my generation are scared s***less of everything because we grew up being told that everything will kill us. and yes there are some things that we should be warned of but we should be able to figure most of it out ourselves
we learn from mistakes yeah? well how can we learn if we are forbidden to do anything that might actually force us to make a mistake

im sorry to all you older more experienced adults but for god sake, we aren't a bunch of idiots who are gonna run into walls or set fire to everything we see

release the bloody leash you have us on and stop the bubble wrapping
let us have some fun. we only get one childhood to form what we will grow up to be

ranting over. my 2 cents in

cheers
The Grinch
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11 Sep 2008 9:47pm
If you were born in th 40s,50s, 60s and 70s.....

YOU'RE OLD!!!!
NotWal
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12 Sep 2008 6:32am
The Grinch said...

If you were born in th 40s,50s, 60s and 70s.....

YOU'RE OLD!!!!


We can count. What's your point?
OceanBlue64
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12 Sep 2008 8:34am
The Grinch said...

If you were born in th 40s,50s, 60s and 70s.....

YOU'RE OLD!!!!


At least we have made it this far
ka43
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12 Sep 2008 10:51am
After reading this post I was pretty happy to come home yesterday arvo to hear that my 12 year old had been out playing with her friends and they had gone exploring in the bush near the beach. She had a few scrapes and cuts from falling over and the odd shrub. She was so happy and had a blast as she told me.
No sooky la-la crap, just plain old fashioned make-your-own-fun and not worry about the consequences.
If I am old (born in the 60's) then at least some of todays youth are doing exactly what we did as kids. Beats the s*** out of sitting in front of the TV or computer!!
Mark _australia
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12 Sep 2008 11:23am
OceanBlue64 said...

I agree with Mike totally.
What I was trying to get across with the original post (it was part of an email I received) was that I think things have gone way too far.
I read recently that playing footy, jump rope and ball sports at some schools has be banned during lunchtimes cos they are scared they will get sued. No wonder kids are getting fatter and lazier.
They also say the rise in children health issues ie asthma etc can be attributed to the fact that we tend to 'sterilise' everything these days. Let the kids eat dirt for gods sake lol. Help them build up their immune system.
Surely we have to get to the stage where common sense takes over and we get away from this stupid litigious type of society we have become.


I have seen it before in some different forms and agree totally.

I went to a primary school sports day last year and I was blown away to see the javelin is now a foam Nerf pole and it goes about 5m if you are lucky.
The shotput is now throwing a softball / baseball. Not even the same technique, just a throw.
The starter's pistol is gone as it may reinforce a gun culture or scare the kids or make them blase about firearms. It is now replaced with 2 pieces of wood they clap together.
FFS people!!!!!

ka43
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12 Sep 2008 1:32pm
Know how you feel Mark.
As for your description of the athletics carnival I was at my daughters Zone meet yesterday and thank goodness it was all normal. Proper big heavy shotput, starters pistol, spiked running shoes etc. The kids were having a blast.
I overheard a couple of young blokes saying to each other that its no big deal if you dont win and when a competitor fell and resumed racing or limped off they were clapped off by the crowd. Lots of good sportsmanship as well.
Refreshing to see. All is not lost.
Mobydisc
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12 Sep 2008 6:20pm
Mark _australia said...

The starter's pistol is gone as it may reinforce a gun culture or scare the kids or make them blase about firearms. It is now replaced with 2 pieces of wood they clap together.
FFS people!!!!!





LOL! Thats a pisser. How embaressment to be the chief clapper.

Anyway I was born in the 70s and a few of my school friends died in the 80s. One was electrocuted when their metal catermaran mast hit an overhead power line. The other died when he fell off the truck driving on the beach. I came close to serious injury or dying a few times as a teenager through misadventure on motorbikes culminating with a headon with a car. I got out of it with ripped jeans and a cut on the leg.

Not sure which way is the way to go. As the old saying goes, to make an omlette you have to break some eggs. However its best to be safe than sorry so I'd rather my kid throw a foam javlin than get speared through the back at a sports carnival. I guess its part of the learning process, getting into dangerous situations and learning from them. However sometimes your luck or judgement is lacking and you get injured or die.

On the other hand, mainstream TV shows and movies are much more violent than shows of yesteryear.



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