Carantoc said..
But seriously now, I do find the concept of "parent" and "child" to be quite demeaning.
It conveys some sort of hierarchal order where one is somehow subservient, or lesser, to the other, based simply on the passage of time.
The use of the word "parent", either the gestational or non-gestational type, is holding many individuals back from fulfilling their own self by implying there is some sort of privileged veto power automatically existing over the decisions that the non-aged experienced might choose to make.
To ensure that society doesn't become entrenched in this spiral of oppression we should be using terms such as "gestational comrade" and "umbilically-liberated comrade" rather than the patriarchal terms such as 'mother' and 'baby'.
I am currently seeking a government grant for 3 years Phd research into how society is shaped by an individual's suppression due to aged-experience gap and concepts of age related subservience in institutional language.
After that I might do a degree in architecture so I can draw pictures of houses.
Nah, just kidding.
...about wasting my time on the architecture stuff.
Don't you find it unfair that the 'previously-referred-to-baby' does not get to choose its own designation? I think it only makes sense that they refrain from calling it anything other than "entity number 41331243214" until it gets to choose its own reference. (Clearly that number needs to change based on the number of entities already numbered.) Once they reach an age where they feel they can choose their own reference, the documentation can then be updated with this.
Also, you will find almost all will fall into the umbilical-liberated comrade category. Do you then discriminate based on age? Clearly that's a "no-no" or a "good on you for participating" situation.
I think reference numbers may be the way to go. There is no inbuilt linkage between one entity number or another, so there is no chance of hurting anyone's feelings at all.
... or we could just call everyone 'Steve'. It would cut down a lot of effort and there is no need to discuss gender/identity/number of years since they were born/architectural courses completed.
I would ask you what you think of my idea, but I don't want to force you to have to respond or to think about an answer well before you wanted to, so I won't. I hope that is okay with you.