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busterwa
busterwa
3782 posts
3782 posts
28 Jun 2010 10:58pm
It seems like the majority of people are choosing looks as the deciding factor in a relationships now days.. hence the striper topic.


I think that there is a wide variety of contributing factors that dictate a happy marriage apart from looks and the availability of sex...

just wondering anyone here been married for a long time and why did you choose your partner.? Was it because of looks ..Why is your partnership so successful?
What makes your marriage so sucessful?
I kinda bet that the longest of relationships werent based on breast size n looks.!!!
petermac33
petermac33
WA
6415 posts
WA, 6415 posts
28 Jun 2010 11:58pm
i knew this 27y.o Japanese girl who when i was around her [even when not talking] i was skyhigh.

it was not her lovely thighs or particularly smooth neck[that i offered to kiss for 2 hours non-stop] or gorgeous hands or cute face......it was the X factor!

needless to say, she has not contacted me since last december.

another woman i knew it was her voice,made me f...ing crazy for her!

she told me she doesn't want to talk to me again!


cisco
cisco
QLD
12365 posts
QLD, 12365 posts
29 Jun 2010 2:37am
I think great relationships often start with great sex.

Once that is established there are a whole lot of other places the relationship can go to, the logical progression being trust.

Wife and I have been together 24 years (20 married) and we still have great sex.

Not as often as we used to but still great. Neither of us has had need or desire to seek other than the delight we have in each other's bodies.

This gives us a position fo comfort from which we can engage in other interests be they mutual or not.
elbeau
elbeau
WA
988 posts
WA, 988 posts
29 Jun 2010 2:52am
My wife was a babe and that has a lot to do with it.

We discussed marriage about a week after meeting, were married about 4 months after meeting and have been married for 30 years.

I remember reading of three elements the experts consider are essential to a successful marriage.

1 You need to be a friend to your partner. A mate. To have fun together.

2 You need the same basic beliefs. Eg Both believe it's wrong to steal, lie, kill etc.

3 You need some form of conflict resolution. So if you do have a disagreement you can work through it without killing each other.

Legion
Legion
WA
2222 posts
WA, 2222 posts
29 Jun 2010 7:53am
petermac33 said...

i knew this 27y.o Japanese girl who when i was around her [even when not talking] i was skyhigh.

it was not her lovely thighs or particularly smooth neck[that i offered to kiss for 2 hours non-stop] or gorgeous hands or cute face......it was the X factor!

needless to say, she has not contacted me since last december.

another woman i knew it was her voice,made me f...ing crazy for her!

she told me she doesn't want to talk to me again!


Maybe they were scared off by your tinfoil hat?

Danger Mouse
Danger Mouse
WA
592 posts
WA, 592 posts
29 Jun 2010 10:13am
Legion said...

petermac33 said...

i knew this 27y.o Japanese girl who when i was around her [even when not talking] i was skyhigh.

it was not her lovely thighs or particularly smooth neck[that i offered to kiss for 2 hours non-stop] or gorgeous hands or cute face......it was the X factor!

needless to say, she has not contacted me since last december.

another woman i knew it was her voice,made me f...ing crazy for her!

she told me she doesn't want to talk to me again!


Maybe they were scared off by your tinfoil hat?




Or the opening line that had to do with chemtrails and the N.W.O
choco
choco
SA
4186 posts
SA, 4186 posts
29 Jun 2010 5:28pm
THE WEDDING TEST

I was a very happy man. My wonderful girlfriend
and I had been dating for over a year, and so we
decided to get married. There was only one
little thing bothering me...It was her beautiful younger sister.

My prospective sister-in-law was twenty-two, wore very tight miniskirts, and generally was bra-less. She would regularly bend down when she was near me, and I always got more than a nice view. It had to be deliberate, because she never did it when she was near anyone else.

One day her 'little' sister called and asked me to come over to check the wedding invitations. She was alone when I arrived, and she whispered to me that she had feelings and desires for me that she couldn't overcome. She told me that she wanted me just once before I got married and committed my life to her sister.

Well, I was in total shock, and couldn't say a word. She said, 'I'm going upstairs to my bedroom, and if you want one last wild fling, just come up and get me.'

I was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched her go up the stairs. I stood there for a moment, then turned and made a beeline straight to the front door. I opened the door, and headed straight towards my car.

Lo and behold, my entire future family was standing outside, all clapping!

With tears in his eyes, my father-in-law hugged me and said, 'We are very happy that you have passed our little test. We couldn't ask for a better man for our daughter. Welcome to the family.'

And the moral of this story is:

Always keep your condoms in your car.



GalahOnTheBay
GalahOnTheBay
NSW
4188 posts
NSW, 4188 posts
29 Jun 2010 7:28pm
^^^^ lol

Choco you are a bad man!
Mobydisc
Mobydisc
NSW
9029 posts
NSW, 9029 posts
29 Jun 2010 7:52pm
GalahOnTheBay said...

^^^^ lol

Choco you are a bad man!


Yeah funny story and a common joke.

www.google.com/search?btnG=1&pws=0&q=THE+WEDDING+TEST+&gws_rd=ssl

To be partners for life takes one simple rule.

Do as "She who must be obeyed" requests.
choco
choco
SA
4186 posts
SA, 4186 posts
29 Jun 2010 7:33pm
Mobydisc said...

GalahOnTheBay said...

^^^^ lol

Choco you are a bad man!


Yeah funny story and a common joke.

www.google.com/search?btnG=1&pws=0&q=THE+WEDDING+TEST+&gws_rd=ssl

To be partners for life takes one simple rule.

Do as "She who must be obeyed" requests.



lol recieved it in an email today
getfunky
getfunky
WA
4485 posts
WA, 4485 posts
29 Jun 2010 6:06pm
cisco said...

I think great relationships often start with great sex.

Once that is established there are a whole lot of other places the relationship can go to, the logical progression being trust.

Wife and I have been together 24 years (20 married) and we still have great sex.

Not as often as we used to but still great. Neither of us has had need or desire to seek other than the delight we have in each other's bodies.

This gives us a position fo comfort from which we can engage in other interests be they mutual or not.


Cisco is pretty right. As soon as the rumpy pumpy goes AWOL - or over the hill with another - it is game over for most relationships, regardless of how good the rest of the relationship may have been.

There are exceptions but it takes two exceptional people to make it work. Most people are not exceptional.

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