cisco said...
I think great relationships often start with great sex.
Once that is established there are a whole lot of other places the relationship can go to, the logical progression being trust.
Wife and I have been together 24 years (20 married) and we still have great sex.
Not as often as we used to but still great. Neither of us has had need or desire to seek other than the delight we have in each other's bodies.
This gives us a position fo comfort from which we can engage in other interests be they mutual or not.
Cisco is pretty right. As soon as the rumpy pumpy goes AWOL - or over the hill with another


- it is game over for most relationships, regardless of how good the rest of the relationship may have been.
There are exceptions but it takes
two exceptional people to make it work. Most people are not exceptional.