Gorgo said...FormulaNova said...
...Its very hard to remain relaxed when you are moving nowhere...
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That is very much in your mind and very much in your control. Just relax. Put something nice on the sound system. (I listen to podcasts from the ABC and assorted web sites. They play in sequence on the iPhone so I can put one on and they play for more than an hour so I don't have to dick around with the phone when driving.)
There are two things you need to do:
1. Is remind yourself that if you get stressed over the traffic, you will escalate your stress levels and feel worse and worse.
2. There seems to be a pursuit reflex in people. You see wide open space in front of you and accelerate into it until you catch the next group, or pass the car in front to fill the gap. Don't do that. You just create the situation you are trying to avoid. Relax. Stay on the speed limit. Go slower if necessary to avoid catching the cars in front.
Not me! I am one of those annoying people that leave a big gap to try and get the traffic moving at the same speed. It really pisses people off as they see this big gap and assume you are going slower than the rest of the traffic. (I don't do this to piss people off, but you can see that it does)
You also see that a lot of people can't ignore a gap in traffic, like you have said, and jump in there, and then often jump back into their original lane when they realise the one they jumped into is not magically 'fast'.
Surprisingly this technique of smoothing traffic works on traffic in front of you, not just behind you. Its hard to believe but the traffic in front of you smooths out, and it seems to be because the person in front of you is not stressed by someone being up close behind them, and the person in front of them is also not stressed by this and so on, so they start to leave bigger gaps and drive more smoothly.
When I was talking about not being able to relax when moving nowhere, I was literally talking about when you get 3 lanes of traffic not moving more than a few metres every minute or two, all because someone broke down (and other people are surely rubber-necking)... Murphy's law says that this only happens on the way to job
interviews or are going out somewhere. It never happens on the way to work for a boring meeting.