Ever watch 'Everybody Loves Raymond'?
My wife, 2 younguns and I live an hour away from where we grew up...it means that it's too far away for regular visits, but close enough to not have to sleep over!
Honestly, work brought me to the coast from an hour inland, and I decided to stay here...
---Relaxed lifestyle & work (so relaxed that we're practically lying down)
---Know many of the locals, and consider them as friends
---100m from beach
---Live well within means on minimum wage (apart from living expenses, money doesn't drive me at all!)
---Can fill a weekend with all sorts of activities that don't include large crowds, big spend-up, travel, etc.
---Very little crime (don't lock car when out on the water...actually don't lock house much either!)
I understand that there's alot of places out there that are 'better' than this one...but we're happy/content here, so why would we move?