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sausage
sausage
QLD
4874 posts
QLD, 4874 posts
17 Nov 2008 10:00pm
Not mentioning any details or names but does anyone have an opinion on whether they would be slightly peeved if they thought they had a deal to purchase a secondhand board (off buy & sell) but the owner had to go O/S for a week and would provide a/c details for payment and sort out courier details on his return, only to receive email informing me that board was sold by his mate whilst he was away.

My last series of emails went along the lines of

Me: " thanks for additional photos -scratches are minor but still keen to purchase for $x - can you confirm how payment to be made"
Seller: "am going O/S for week so can we sort out on my return"
Me:"Not a problem at all - have a safe trip"

I suppose easy come easy go. Just needed to get it off chest.
mineral1
mineral1
WA
4564 posts
WA, 4564 posts
17 Nov 2008 9:51pm
Yep deal is yours 100%, he has to make good on his agreement as per emails.
Waste of time pushing it,as it will get ugly.
But you could be a bit of a mongrel and make him sweat it a bit. [}:)]Next time he will say , "sorry its off the market", changed my mind.
elmo
elmo
WA
8895 posts
WA, 8895 posts
17 Nov 2008 9:54pm
Not worth loosing a moment's sleep about it.

Thunk more about that leaving your brass free to buy a better board
sausage
sausage
QLD
4874 posts
QLD, 4874 posts
18 Nov 2008 9:44am
elmo said...

Not worth loosing a moment's sleep about it.

Thunk more about that leaving your brass free to buy a better board


You're dead right Elmo although the board was the exact one I was after at the right price.
Regards,
Still ever so slightly peeved.
graceful
graceful
WA
773 posts
WA, 773 posts
18 Nov 2008 12:15pm
yeah id be pisd too[}:)]
stamp
stamp
QLD
2800 posts
QLD, 2800 posts
18 Nov 2008 1:59pm
spilt milk
wormy
wormy
QLD
679 posts
QLD, 679 posts
18 Nov 2008 3:35pm
Don't worry about it, wait till you go to sell your house and it falls through three time before the cooloing off period ends, or they can't get finance and the finance clause applies,
Ive come to believe the world is full of people who say they are going to do something but it is only a few that actually follow through,
It sux but I decided to get used it, It will only affect my blood pressure if I get pissed off, the other party usually don't give a toss.
dism
dism
NSW
660 posts
NSW, 660 posts
18 Nov 2008 4:55pm
I can understand people changing their minds about small things

As at the time they thought it was good, but now something has changed for them or a rethink priorities etc

Sausage - sounds like you had a word of mouth contract (but not worth pushing, sucks that it was your ideal board but)

Wormy, as for your house, thats a bloody big thing for someone to change their mind about!

Hope you find a new board sausage (I was gunna shorten that to snag, but then that comes with weird connotations now - see 'Aussie blokes thread' haha)
sausage
sausage
QLD
4874 posts
QLD, 4874 posts
18 Nov 2008 4:02pm
dism said...


Hope you find a new board sausage (I was gunna shorten that to snag, but then that comes with weird connotations now - see 'Aussie blokes thread' haha)


Saus is fine though. Wife is called sausette by friends who know me as sausage and the kids sometimes get called cheerios.
evlPanda
evlPanda
NSW
9207 posts
NSW, 9207 posts
18 Nov 2008 6:17pm
wormy said...

Don't worry about it, wait till you go to sell your house and it falls through three time before the cooloing off period ends, or they can't get finance and the finance clause applies,


HA! Been there too, three times!!! Stressful or what? I love the "can't get acceptable finance" clause. This can mean they just don't like the rate and usually lasts right up to near settlement date. Always take a cash over over anything else.

And I had a purchase riding on the sale each time, extend plead, extend, renegotiate, oooh another buyer, etc etc. In the end I got 11th hour finance, but another party had beat me to it, then they changed their minds. Finally I said "I don't want it. Please make this stop."

I waited 6 months and I found something even better. Somehow it works out like that. Bet it does for you too sausage.



wormy
wormy
QLD
679 posts
QLD, 679 posts
18 Nov 2008 6:52pm
Its not just you and me either, happened to my mother recently and stressed her out major, 3 times wanting an extension on the contract, holding up the sale so no one else could buy it,
My tip. Never extend a contract, tell em to get the money and come back but in the meantime its on the market.
arancini
arancini
WA
373 posts
WA, 373 posts
18 Nov 2008 6:02pm
id be fatalistic about it, "it must have been full of water", "it would have been snapped during transport", "you would have been run down by a kiter and injured while using it" etc etc etc etc.
Bondalucci
Bondalucci
VIC
1580 posts
VIC, 1580 posts
19 Nov 2008 12:44am
Sausage, what was the ideal board you had your eye on?
We are scattered all over Australia and one of us may be able to put you onto the same board at an even better price!

sausage
sausage
QLD
4874 posts
QLD, 4874 posts
19 Nov 2008 11:43pm
Bondalucci said...

Sausage, what was the ideal board you had your eye on?
We are scattered all over Australia and one of us may be able to put you onto the same board at an even better price!




Thanks Bondy,
2008 iSonic 122 - Similar to those wide mouth frogs "ain't seen many of them round here"
westhammer
westhammer
WA
507 posts
WA, 507 posts
19 Nov 2008 11:33pm
A gentlemans agreement is face to face with a hand shake anthing else should not be taken seriously...No satalite agreement is best.
iansn
iansn
WA
22 posts
WA, 22 posts
22 Nov 2008 6:48am
Australia (was) renouned for the "hand shake" and a mans word was "his bond". The old boys would be turning in their graves to see what this country has become.
The deal was yours mate, no question.
Unfortunately these days we have to get used to this type of sh#t.
Hope you find a better one at a better price.
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