Yep, gotta watch out for the boobies when you are a chick learning.

Especially in the ocean on a directional board. That harness hook can be evil. I started with a waist harness, it rode up to bejesus, i couldn't reach the bar and it was all very discouraging.
I went to a Dakine seat harness for a year, it's really hard to walk upwind with a seat harness tho. Got my skills up a bit, and have now gone back to my waist harness with a sliding spreader bar (dynabar). Best invention ever, the hook angles up when the kite is high so the harness stays put and it slides around so toeside is comfy. I. Whilst a wise kite instructor once told me "you know what is easier than walking upwind? Kiting upwind" we all occasionally do the walk of shame and the dynabar slides round to the side and makes it super easy.