hey baggsy,
Cool to hear you have a couple of girls that are keen on learning.
IMHO i hated the girls gear, i rode with a girls seat when i was learning but i got over it super fast (way to annoying).
I change to girls waist, that was fine.
When i got my north waist harness just over a year ago, i honestly couldn't tell any difference between a girls or guys.
In fact the north waist harness was the best out of any.
I think the whole girls V's guys thing is a myth just go with what feels good in the shop.
Cheers Angie