I'm an engineer and this is Year 11/12 Stuff. I'm going to now prove to you that two vehicles impacting each other at 100km/hr is the same as a single car impacting a wall at 100 km/hr.
Assumptions:
- Both Vehicles weigh 2000kg and are identical
- The wall does not deflect.
- Crumple Zone impact/crush length is 1m
- Assume linear change in velocity on impact
Case 1: Impacting Wall
Car strikes wall and changes velocity from 100km/hr (27.8 m/s) to 0 m/s
Crumple zone means car travels 1m from point of first impact to being 100% at rest.
Given linear acceleration from 27.8 m/s to rest, average velocity over time of impact is 13.9 m/s
Car travels 1m during impact
1m/13.9 = 0.07s impact duration
Acceleration = 27.8/0.07 = 397.14 m/s/s ~ 40g (close your eyes or you will lose your eyeballs)
F = mass x acceleration
mass of car = 2000 x 9.8 = 19.6 kN
F = 19.6 kN x 397.14
= 7783 kN = 7 783 000 N
OK Case 2, two cars in a head on.
Both cars have same momentum as they have the same mass and the same velocity (but in opposite vectors) A perfect head on collision will result in both cars coming to a complete rest.
Both cars will crumple by the same amount. Energy absorbed by each car will be the same. There will be 2 x 7783 kN = 15566 kN dissipated by the crash but it is split evenly between the two cars so the force exerted on each car is the same as one car hitting a brick wall.
QED in an idealised world, there is no difference in hitting a wall at 100km/hr or having a head on with a car travelling in the opposite direction at 100km/hr.
Of course, in the real world, the head on will be slightly off axis, car masses different, velocities different but the cars are likely to continue travelling further past the point of impact, resulting in a longer duration of negative acceleration, hence less Force on the vehicles.
Case closed.