blueseas said...if I can work out how to private message I will send u my number

Click on the persons user name above their avitar from the left hand side of the page.
Then over on the right hand side click on the "send email"
Seabreeze usually sends u a little notification when you login to let you know you have a new message.
You can also view your messages by clicking on the "my messages" from the top right corner.