Passion or sickness?!

> 10 years ago
Reply
Register to post, see what you've read, and subscribe to topics.
dorothyinste
dorothyinste
QLD
481 posts
QLD, 481 posts
24 Sep 2012 7:33am
Since discovering the sport of kitesurfing, it has taken over almost every aspect of my life. I used to have some savings in the bank, instead i have seven kites, four boards, five harnesses, and no savings. In less than a year!

It is like a drug. The wind is my 'fix', I just cannot wait for the next 'hit'.

My query is, does this condition, this fixation ever abate? Will the 'novelty' of kitesurfing wear off?
hamburglar
hamburglar
ACT
2174 posts
ACT, 2174 posts
24 Sep 2012 8:58am
dorothyinste said...

Since discovering the sport of kitesurfing, it has taken over almost every aspect of my life. I used to have some savings in the bank, instead i have seven kites, four boards, five harnesses, and no savings. In less than a year!

It is like a drug. The wind is my 'fix', I just cannot wait for the next 'hit'.

My query is, does this condition, this fixation ever abate? Will the 'novelty' of kitesurfing wear off?


if it ever does for you let us know, sounds like there will be lots of 2nd hand hardly used gear 4 sale

answer to query .........No

Gorgo
Gorgo
VIC
5125 posts
VIC, 5125 posts
24 Sep 2012 9:50am
dorothyinste said...
...seven kites, four boards, five harnesses, and no savings. In less than a year!

....


Sounds like you are more interested in buying stuff than kiting.

13 years later still kiting. I only have 3 kites and 2 boards ... and 2 harnesses ... and I've lost count of the wetsuits ...
jev7337
jev7337
QLD
460 posts
QLD, 460 posts
24 Sep 2012 10:35am
Five harnesses?? You joking? That's more gear than a pro needs. Maybe you should seek counselling. It look's like your passion or sickness got nothing to do with kiting
LostDog
LostDog
WA
445 posts
WA, 445 posts
24 Sep 2012 8:55am
Is it perhaps replacing a shoe fettish Dorothy?

Put down the Credit Card and step away from the salesman!
Plummet
Plummet
4862 posts
4862 posts
24 Sep 2012 9:25am
Why so many harnesses? now that is unusual!!!. hehehe...

Does the need for a fix abate? not really. sort of.





lovelife
lovelife
SA
160 posts
SA, 160 posts
24 Sep 2012 11:31am
For my 4 months in I think I can justify 2 kites 1 board 1 harness 2 wetsuits, 3 kite bikinis and 3 magazine subscriptions.. however I literally have NO money in the bank either (being at uni full time doesnt help), and there used to be at least some lol!

Now I get itchy when the trees start to move, always hungry for more wind and cannot wipe the smile of my face for a few days after a good sesh...

Sometimes I wonder what I was doing before I started kiting haha


dorothyinste
dorothyinste
QLD
481 posts
QLD, 481 posts
25 Sep 2012 6:06am
Plummet said...

Why so many harnesses? now that is unusual!!!. hehehe...

Does the need for a fix abate? not really. sort of.









a waist harness and seat harness for myself, one for my girlfriend, one for my daughter, and one came with a kite deal...five harnesses.
bigmark100
bigmark100
NSW
584 posts
NSW, 584 posts
25 Sep 2012 8:28am
well i've been addicted since 2004, and the addiction is finally subsiding , but just a little.
I would be much more successful, and a lot wealthier if it wasnt for kitesurfing.
But i wouldnt change it. Im probably a lot healthier.

I still get very excited by green arrrows , and a kite. But I dont obsess as much if its windy. ie - im not a miserable sod if its windy and I have to be somewhere else.
kitingtopher
kitingtopher
SA
313 posts
SA, 313 posts
25 Sep 2012 9:28am
i am still trying to find a fault in your logicperfectly normal
Plummet
Plummet
4862 posts
4862 posts
25 Sep 2012 10:08am
dorothyinste said...

Plummet said...

Why so many harnesses? now that is unusual!!!. hehehe...

Does the need for a fix abate? not really. sort of.









a waist harness and seat harness for myself, one for my girlfriend, one for my daughter, and one came with a kite deal...five harnesses.


ok well thats completely different. your counting gear for others! they have to count there own gear!. that is how it goes when you need to justify your addiction top yourself.!

I have recently sold 2 kites so i'm down to 5 kites one mutant and a landboard. by the end of summer i will have made another landboard and possibly 2 more kiteboards.

PS Its a passionate sickness!.
Juddy
Juddy
WA
1103 posts
WA, 1103 posts
25 Sep 2012 10:54am
dorothyinste said...

Since discovering the sport of kitesurfing, it has taken over almost every aspect of my life. I used to have some savings in the bank, instead i have seven kites, four boards, five harnesses, and no savings. In less than a year!

It is like a drug. The wind is my 'fix', I just cannot wait for the next 'hit'.

My query is, does this condition, this fixation ever abate? Will the 'novelty' of kitesurfing wear off?


Got anything left of your relationship?
Saffer
Saffer
VIC
4501 posts
VIC, 4501 posts
25 Sep 2012 2:32pm
dorothyinste said...
My query is, does this condition, this fixation ever abate? Will the 'novelty' of kitesurfing wear off?


Reality sets in when you have a wife and kids. You realise everything in moderation is the solution. Do one without moderation and you're likely to leave gaps in your life.

I.e. all kiting and no work leaves a gap in your wallet, all kiting and no time with your wife leaves a gap in your sex life and normally a divorce, all work and no kiting leaves a gap in your sanity
Plummet
Plummet
4862 posts
4862 posts
25 Sep 2012 12:49pm
Saffer said...
I.e. all kiting and no work leaves a gap in your wallet, all kiting and no time with your wife leaves a gap in your sex life and normally a divorce, all work and no kiting leaves a gap in your sanity


So..... therefore.

The perfect life = a profssional kitesurfing instructor/prostitute...
eppo
eppo
WA
9793 posts
WA, 9793 posts
25 Sep 2012 12:49pm
Saffer said...

dorothyinste said...
My query is, does this condition, this fixation ever abate? Will the 'novelty' of kitesurfing wear off?


Reality sets in when you have a wife and kids. You realise everything in moderation is the solution. Do one without moderation and you're likely to leave gaps in your life.

I.e. all kiting and no work leaves a gap in your wallet, all kiting and no time with your wife leaves a gap in your sex life and normally a divorce, all work and no kiting leaves a gap in your sanity





Saffer is talking sense except the no time with your wife leaves a gap in your sex life...obviously he's been married a shorter time than me!! LOL.

13 years in and the addiction has got greater every year not less. It's my passion, everything is well recessed into the background. Except my kids. Wife, well neither her nor there really. Suppose that's part of the kid package. Even changed careers from an Engineer to a school teacher for kiting, so there's considerable opportunity cost.






Harrison1
Harrison1
QLD
52 posts
QLD, 52 posts
27 Sep 2012 6:54pm
Ive been at it for nearly 2 years and have 1 kite, 1 board, 1 Harness and 1 Wetsuit
But am saving dollars for a significant Kiteupgrade

Happy Kiting
tmurray
tmurray
WA
485 posts
WA, 485 posts
27 Sep 2012 5:30pm
Well it all depends on whether the harnesses for your daughter and girlfriend are REALLY for them - or are they actually yours and you're doing a bit of creative accounting.
Or did you buy them a whole heap of gear so you can justify your own purchases.
Or are you trying really hard to get them involved in something you love so that you don't get in trouble for spending all your free time at the beach.
Any of those would indicate a problem.
suniboy21
suniboy21
VIC
1090 posts
VIC, 1090 posts
27 Sep 2012 7:48pm
I get really short tempered and kinda sihty when its windy and i know i cant go, cause of other restaints.
But once i get my fix, it can sometimes hold me off for a few days.
I guess thats the life of a typical junkie.....
dafish
dafish
NSW
1654 posts
NSW, 1654 posts
27 Sep 2012 8:05pm
I have a wife and two kids, and they know that when there is wind all else stops. They know I am happier, more at ease with the world, and generally more fun to be around when I have been kiting or surfing. I am one of the luckier dudes though, my wife has never held me back from surfing in all our 27 years together. I slowed down when my kids were small because I wanted to be around them, not because I was told I had to. Time with your kids goes like a blink of an eye, and then they are adults or late teenagers who don't want to spend time with the family. Then its time to ramp up the surfing/ kiting again.
I also made it a mission to go on surf trips with my family, and nobody complained ever. My kids loved Fiji and Mexico every time we went. I just made sure that it wasn't surf 24/7, and that we have family time.
Learning to kite a few years ago has given me such a new stoke that has combined everything I love about the ocean....I feel for anyone who marries a girl who does not realize how important the ocean is to us who feel at ease in that world...
dorothyinste
dorothyinste
QLD
481 posts
QLD, 481 posts
28 Sep 2012 3:54am
dafish said...

I have a wife and two kids, and they know that when there is wind all else stops. They know I am happier, more at ease with the world, and generally more fun to be around when I have been kiting or surfing. I am one of the luckier dudes though, my wife has never held me back from surfing in all our 27 years together. I slowed down when my kids were small because I wanted to be around them, not because I was told I had to. Time with your kids goes like a blink of an eye, and then they are adults or late teenagers who don't want to spend time with the family. Then its time to ramp up the surfing/ kiting again.
I also made it a mission to go on surf trips with my family, and nobody complained ever. My kids loved Fiji and Mexico every time we went. I just made sure that it wasn't surf 24/7, and that we have family time.
Learning to kite a few years ago has given me such a new stoke that has combined everything I love about the ocean....I feel for anyone who marries a girl who does not realize how important the ocean is to us who feel at ease in that world...


Sounds like you have a well balanced life. Well done!
Rosy
Rosy
WA
175 posts
WA, 175 posts
28 Sep 2012 7:00am
Of course when you ask that question, is it either a addiction or sickness. I'll have to say both! All the comments above can argue both those words.
In the end of the day, its your life and if it isn't hurting anybody then so be my addiction and sickness for this awesome Sport

See you all out there Wind Junkies
pneucube
pneucube
SA
112 posts
SA, 112 posts
28 Sep 2012 8:34am
My five cents,
53 Years old. Healthy, self employed, have a great business a wonderful staff, married 29 years, two sons (just getting one of them into kiting)
If its windy Im kiting full stop. My family and staff know and put up with me, as l put in after the sesh. Addicted, If its windy I am on the water.
My work car is always full of kiting stuff, just in case. I have 5 kites (not all in the car at once) and 3 boards, 2 harnesses and 2 wetsuits.
Addicted to seabreeze (thanks great website) and green arrows.
Have a hot Monaro, a fabulous Ducati.
I have been much healthier since I have started kiting and have a very basic fitness routine just to keep fit for when it is windy and therefore better off for it.
You could say living the dream, I do. Not bragging but very lucky to be in this situation
Thanks to all the forum input, from the amount of posts (positive ones, the negative ones **** me) some folks are way more addicted tham me.
The local crew at our kiting spot are sensational
Looking great today in Adelaide so took the day off to enjoy the wind.
See you out on the water.
Thanks Jim
eppo
eppo
WA
9793 posts
WA, 9793 posts
28 Sep 2012 7:42am
dafish said...

I have a wife and two kids, and they know that when there is wind all else stops. They know I am happier, more at ease with the world, and generally more fun to be around when I have been kiting or surfing. I am one of the luckier dudes though, my wife has never held me back from surfing in all our 27 years together. I slowed down when my kids were small because I wanted to be around them, not because I was told I had to. Time with your kids goes like a blink of an eye, and then they are adults or late teenagers who don't want to spend time with the family. Then its time to ramp up the surfing/ kiting again.
I also made it a mission to go on surf trips with my family, and nobody complained ever. My kids loved Fiji and Mexico every time we went. I just made sure that it wasn't surf 24/7, and that we have family time.
Learning to kite a few years ago has given me such a new stoke that has combined everything I love about the ocean....I feel for anyone who marries a girl who does not realize how important the ocean is to us who feel at ease in that world...






Really love ya attitude about ya passion and your family. And I agree they are precious years.
Saffer
Saffer
VIC
4501 posts
VIC, 4501 posts
29 Sep 2012 6:27pm
dafish said...

I slowed down when my kids were small because I wanted to be around them, not because I was told I had to.


+1. I used to think people couldn't kite because they had kids. Now I realise they don't want to kite because they have kids. I'm a lot more selective about when I kite now because I have a 2 year old (and another due in Jan). I'd rather spend time with her than have a crappy gusty session where you're fighting the kite anyway.
lotofwind
lotofwind
NSW
6451 posts
NSW, 6451 posts
29 Sep 2012 7:08pm
So the moral of the story is wear a condom if you want to kite every time its windy.
dafrog
dafrog
321 posts
321 posts
29 Sep 2012 5:34pm
Hi my name is Ben and I am a kiteoholic, this is my story:

Once upon a time I knew nothing of kitesurfing, ignorant of the wind and its possibilities... lived in mountains and had no heart for the sea...

I moved to Greece where the Meltemi blows the summer days away drunk my weight away and was enabled in the dark art of mastering winds aplenty.

Then enabling others... i then tried surviving without it living inland, looking out the window behind my desk for any breeze,

For the wind to call my name again. I dreamed of it and nothing had any taste as sweet as a windy hot day spent on a 9 cruising the seas...

Got dumped by my sweet booty as my head was away in latitudes unknown looking forward to the next spot with constant breeze.

Not minding, envisaging being in any place called home for my heart for earthly pleasures was dead... I had a career but it meant none so that too was gone.

Picked up my bag and traveled again, Africa, Australia. I've lost myself in my demise from promising beginnings to looking desperately at forecast on Seabreeze.

Wondering when will hit the next squall, chatting nonsense and gear waiting for the wind to arise and in its glorious mercy embrace me in it's loving arms.

it's so bad the addiction it must be terminal, never have I in anything, been so lyrical.
taxi
taxi
QLD
416 posts
QLD, 416 posts
2 Oct 2012 10:04am
Passion or sickness,a bit of both l think,l do get excited when the wind picks up knowing the amount of joy that this can provide,actually it's more of a addiction...
Puetz
Puetz
NT
2186 posts
NT, 2186 posts
2 Oct 2012 10:17am
... addiction for sure.

What happens to you when you don't get a kite ... ?

Do you get angry at nothing,,,,, do you twitch at a leaf blowing past you, do you constantly stare up at the sky looking at trees, do you intently shoosh everyone when the forcast is being read on TV.... do you speed in the car when you think there is wind...??

All signs of addiction!!!

Watch what happens when you go away on holidays and you haven't had any wind for a week,,, people start doing crazy things like sup'ing!!!

Can passion be turned off,,, can addiction be turned off???

Yep, its an addiction!

503010
503010
QLD
6 posts
QLD, 6 posts
14 Oct 2012 10:32am

Ad-dic-tion: noun. The state of being enslaved to a habit or practice or to something that is psychologically or physically habit-forming to such an extent that its cessation causes severe trauma.

It is an addiction, after 10 years tho, you get a bit picky about it.
You realise there is more to life, you only turn up when you know it's on.

There are fewer times when you stand there on the beach trying to convince yourself
that it's worth getting wet. You're still at the beach tho, cause you just never know, maybe seabreeze got it wrong, maybe there's something wrong with the wind meter and its underreading or a giant is standing in front of it or its got a plastic bag wrapped around it, maybe those yellow arrows should be green, maybe there's a massive reverse sweep and it's kiteable anyway, and you're the only one missing out cause you didn't actually go and check, maybe there are kites everywhere, maybe its about to come in, besides you've got the day off the kids are at school, the wife's at work, you load up the car, to go check, just in case, 6 things you need to go kiting, kite, board, bar and lines, harness, pump...what's the 6th...can't remember...wind.

It took a while, but she realises now, when its on, I mean really on, it doesn't matter what's happening, it's where I'll be and what I'll be doing, once you reach that point, harmony returns or she's already left you....
eppo
eppo
WA
9793 posts
WA, 9793 posts
14 Oct 2012 10:23am
Some real time input. Currently sitting watching my 4 and 5 yr old at the local skate park. Wind is blowing decent swell but had 6 epic days in a row at exmouth and 3 days here and I am ready to announce I also bought a SUP. just told a friend who I surf with and he said he's never talking to me again. Lol. But as I see it in the morning when I'm with the kids and wife down beach can sup take kids out even try and get my wife on it. Good luck with that!

I also have a small ozone trainer kite that I put up with the kids. Starting to eye off a small inflatable bit they don't have the ability yet to make decisions when things go wrong. But for the most part they are holding it up themselves. Even looping it. That gives me a big buzz.
pueter66
pueter66
QLD
205 posts
QLD, 205 posts
14 Oct 2012 3:26pm
You guys have weak wills Kite addiction huh what a load of s----------Hangon is that the wind picking up UMMM I have got to go and do something
Please Register, or first...
Topics Subscribe Reply