I think you stop being a newbie, when you can answer that very question.
When your kite, bar and lines, and board become an extension of your body and you no longer need to consciously think to ride and jump, carve and kite in any direction you choose.
It's like driving a manual shift car, you never think about using the clutch, accelerator and gear stick all at once and in perfect synchronicity, you just shift and then before you know it, you're in the next gear. Same with kiting, when you kite like that, you are no longer a noob.
Yep, that's it. You get it from flying your kite ......... a lot!
Good winds,