I`d try a set of short lines on your 12 first.
Also have you tried playing with all the adjustments to make it fly through the window faster and maybe turn slower in higher winds?
I have a few boards but only one kite, its a 12m and I can fly it in 10-30knots using different boards for different conditions. I`m 80kgs though.
If you get another kite I`d back up "gruezi", no less than 9m.
I`d be checking out the secondhand market for that.
Good luck and have fun. (remember that my 2cents worth is just that)