Noobs are welcome!

As long as the lines are not twisted around the bar itself or any other object, and they're still attached to the kite, you should be ok. BUT only if you're still holding the bar correctly (red on your left and blue on the right) or what ever colour your bars have.
You did the right thing in the 2nd bit. If the lines are tangled around the bar, it's best to QR immediately and not try and untangle the situation. You would probably have to do a self-rescue, and then sort it all on the beach.
No1 aim in any sticky situation is to depower the kite to zilch if possible. If it pulls you regardless, you need to release the lot! Don't try and 2nd guess it.