I actually saw a few launching mistakes today. People throwing kites into the power zone. Giving thumbs up when the canopy is still flapping.. specially at a narrow beach like Melville things like these can end up quite badly.
best advise I can give (even though I am a beginner too)
only give the thumbs up when you can see that the canopy is totally stretched under the wind, no flapping at all. When it is flapping it usually means you just need to walk upwind a bit more as teabaggin said. You should be able to feel when you can launch because of the tension.
try it a few times mate and it becomes second nature!