Ha ha . I got no missus but l got a twin foil on my furler which makes my life much easier. Changing sails is easier too, just bend it using the other halyard while the boat usually steers itself or use the autopilot.
Also l can run twin genoas goosewinged and get my main down out there. Not on the Harbour though.
Using it partially furled is also possible though not desirable because the furlers are not really able to keep their shape. The purists say NO to that but that is their problem. You could furl a larger sail - genoa or a higher cut Yankee, no worries. It might look like your washing but such is life. It is still going to take you to your destination and without hard work in the bargain.
Would not put it on the boat if l was going to race, but some biiig racing yachts use it with success.
Check out this cruiser, and tell how many furlers it has?!