Futurecruiser said..
Anyone got any advice on an improved replacement?
Yes! A conventional "Walker's Gland Seal".
This might seem primitive but they work. If you burnt out the packing and you are in a remote place, you could grease up some rag and stuff it with that and it will get you home.
"Dripless Seals" were originally designed for pumps in an industrial application and then somebody realized they could be sold to people with boats for more money. So before you buy a new dripless seal from a chandlers, see what you can buy from a pump or irrigation shop.
When dripless seals fail completely, there is no fixing them. They just gush water in.
But I am "old school". If your dripless seal has a two year guarantee, replace it every two years.