So my wife wrote the broker and owner an email apologising profusely and explaining her medical condition and how devastated she was by having to cancel the sale. She asked would they please reconsider and return at least some of the deposit as she felt bad enough we had had to give up the dream of the boat but losing so much money (a huge amount to us) was making her mental state even worse.
Last night she received an email back (2 days later) saying they were sorry for her condition but they would still be keeping all the deposit.
Then they said perhaps we would like to continue with the purchase and resell her ourselves to try and get some of our money back!?



So we cancel the sale 4 days ago because of my wife's health, and now they think we should buy the boat again and resell her in another state when they couldn't sell her in 14 months?? Yes I'm sure the stress of doing that that would be really good for my wife's mental state...
None of these people need this money, the owner is an ex naval commander and lives in a multi million dollar house and will never use the money. It's just pure greed and nastiness. Early this year we had a deal agreed on another boat and then the owners sold it to someone else for a few thousand more.
Sometimes you can really lose faith in human nature.