p3p4p5 said..
I have that CTEK Charger and I have used it on all sorts of batteries right down to 7ah and it never damaged a battery.
Why dont you pull the multimeter out and check each batter individually. You will At least know the state of charge of each battery.
I would separately charge each battery in the "Condition Mode" on the CTEK and then combine them. Then check the terminal voltage after a recondition charge cycle.
One Battery could have a damaged cell and all that you are doing is putting the batteries in parallel which will read the voltage of the good battery which is above the one with the damaged cell. You essentially fooling the charger into thinking that the batteries are charged because the charge state is indicated by the terminal voltage of the battery with the highest terminal voltage. The multimeter will give you a instant answer if one battery is under charged or faulty.
I think the problem is that the Ctek is not wired to the house battery in isolation. In fact I haven't completely figured out how it is wired yet.
So the house battery never gets a proper charge from the mains charger - hence the post title.