Yes it is a replacement - not reconstruction, I didn't mean surfing after 6 months, but perhaps a gentle paddle in flat water to see how things go, have built a pulley system under the house and bought my first ever automatic car, try to be independent, (cut up food for instance?)
Op on the 8th Dec and parents, kids and grandkids start arriving on the 12th and last lot leave on new years eve.
Hopefully there will be so much happiness about that the pain will be pushed into the background
Steve thanks for your comments people