Disagree... a little. If your extension at its longest setting has 13cm "up the mast" then I think that is fine if it is a good fit.
As for needing 34cm extension
according to the sail manufacturer and having an extension that goes up to 34cm
according to the extension manufacturer.... prolly not good enough. I have always found that you need about 3-6cm more extension due to the fact that you cannot pull the tack pulley (the downhaul bit on the sail) all the way to touching the extension pulleys.... and also the fact that their measurements can be a bit crook.
Some extensions are better than others in that regard: my cheapo needed about 6cm more and my Chinook is much better, maybe about 3cm more.
Also remember that too long an extension is bad as on your smallest sails you may have 35-40cm of ally pipe up the mast which will change it's bend curve. I now have a short one I use for 'no extension' and my long one is used for 10cm - 40cm. Partly cos I've got too many sails