Its a mistake to think that falling in on a gybe and looking like a complete duffer in front of your mates is a problem. Lets face it most of the people you sail with are going to give you grief even if you sail like Mark Angulo.
The big issue here is your appearance. Now for some folks this isn't a big issue, they have no self esteem. When questions of appearance and etiquette occur the only authority worth considering is that doyen of manners and style Emily Post.
Though her many articles for the New Yorker only briefly touch upon windsurfing careful reading reveals the crucial lesson.
Don't get your hair wet!
This may require a slightly conservative approach to many moves (loops,spocks ect..) any serious disciple will be willing to make the sacrifice.
Al