Wow, thanks to everyone for the responses!
Decrepit: Use the board not the sail eh? I think you're right about the flair gybe, my old aircraft carrier of a board was so easy to gybe although it wasn't what you'd call a planing gybe

It sounds so easy in theory, also looks easy in the videos, but it's something else when trying to control a bucking board, gusty sail and step on the right positions!
Katy: Yep my DVD shows the steps, I've spent hours in front of the caravan looking like a doofus with the bottom half of a mast, my boom and board, thinking about where to put my feet and stepping it out. Lucky I live away from civilisation hey
Did you manage that chop hop yet?
GaryNoel: Wow, a light just went on. I can turn 90 degrees using just the board, it's the second 90 that's the problem... so if I enter at 45 degrees, turn through 90, then I'll be heading back the other way, won't I? OK that's what I'll try next time out. Those steps sound right, although about half the instructors say to sail out clew first, the other half say to flip when heading downwind. I've been trying the clew first approach, I'll have a go at the flip now. And as for kiting... I'm not nearly trendy enough!
Laurie: Bend ze kneez, get weight forward... more things to remember *phew!* I was always hopeless at drums LOL. I'm sure that gybing will succumb to hours on the water though.
Aro9150: Welcome to the forum! What size board do you use in relation to your weight? (your weight + how many kilos). Eg I use a board that's my weight + 20 kg's. The reason I ask is that if there's not much forward motion I need a foot in front of the mast to stop the whole thing sinking, which sort of makes the skills needed for a gybe superhuman

Thanks again for the responses, and good luck to anyone else who's trying to get that first gybe!