Well I bet you're confused now Jim!!
(There is no spoon)
I assume you are a 'weekend'/'general' sailor.
After wading through all the wishwash, id still get a 6.0m for your lighter friend.
Only one other person stuck their neck out and said 6.5m. So why not compromise and go for a 6.3?
This assumes you both have.
Same board
Same mast
Same boom
Same conditions ( i.e wind)
Same proficiency of sailor
Same Star Sign
Same Hair Gell
and....
the 65 kg person wants to do the SAME things as you do on your 7.0m
I.e Assuming all things EQUAL.
When the wind picks up significantly I usually put up a smaller sail. Same would apply if I realised I was carrying 20kg of lead in my wetsuit and then decided to take it out.
After saying all this I notice you havent posted a response so I might just be talking to myself!!