I've had a mast break whilst I was getting my wetsuit on and have had one break in the surf.
As with any material be it plastic or metal the application of heeat weakens the molecular strength of the item in fact a lot of plastics retain only about 10% of their compressive yeild strenths at around 80ºC (if not lower).
The forces involved in the down haul of a sail are quite considerable, hence the reason why a lot of racers have to use a winch to down haul a sail, now although a wave sail requires considerably less force it is still generally going through 4 possibly 6 pullies reducing the effort you apply physically, but you still have to put your back into it to tighten it down.
Aerotech are now designing race sails which use less down haul so as to alleviate the problem of the regular mast failure. they do it by building in more shape and having more battens (weight compromise. Our local Avalon sails has been doing it for a while (cleva fella he is)
It should also be noted tht when downhauling a sail you are not only bending it you are also compressing it.
The other forces which we often underestimate is the force of a wave. 1 cubic neter of water weighs 1 tonne, it's moving so it's got energy so the effect is greater.
What you can't quantify is how it impacts on your gear, you could have a mast high screamer clean you up you get your breath back swim to your gear and look in stunned disbelief that it is still intact. The next week you get a wave 1/4 the size and do an "elmo" at the end of it and fall off you resurface and find you've suddenly got a customized mast and a long swim back.
Theres been a lot said about skinny masts being "bullet proof" but in my windsurfing life of a whole 5 years I've seen 3 skinnies end up in the rectangular filing cabinet, on the other hand I have seen 3 std masts go the same way, which are interesting stats when you think of the ratios of skinnies to std out there.
Myself, I stick to low carbon content for waves, they may be heavier and less springy than the higher contects but they seem quite a bit more robust (note I didn't say indestructable)
As a general rule of thumb
Lightness increases cost and is generally weaker.
Make things stronger and they weigh more but also increase the forces elsewhere, a stronger mast requires more downhaul force placing more stress on the sail materials leading to earlier failures there.
Everthing we do is a compromise somehow and until the is a technological leap in either materials or design the we will still be doing this ballancing act.
We all go out in a sport where we should know and expect that we can and will (Hopefully rarely) have breakages, it's the nature of the beast.
Thats my 2 bobs worth anyway. Please correct me if my observations are wildly inaccurate.
Leper, I hope your run of bad luck is at an end and that your waves all line up for you.
Alby
Just remember, the only things indestructable are just things I haven't used yet