would you mind showing me how to table top etc, stuff the jibe

Mayb thats my prob, im letting it float around.. So all you guys push it when flipping the sail? Hmmmm... makes sense, cause when I flip it, the sail is flapping back and forth then I'm leaning forward and pulls me over etc..

If you plane through a gybe, the sail will flip itself. If you are not planing through your gybes, it's likely that you are leaning back, rather than a bit forward, through the turn, and bogging the tail.
I got a tip once, to try and dip my knees in the water, which was very helpful. It encourages a nice rail pressure while keeping your weight forward , which turns the board without disturbing the trim. Sheet in, lean forward while applying even steady rail pressure, and plane around like a beauty.
At the flip, slide your hand up the boom so it is close to the mast. If you let it flip in the sailing position, the axis of rotation is too far back, and it all goes very bad.

I've been stuffing my port-side gybes recently, so I've had to go back and re-analyse a lot of this stuff. It's a beotch when you get out of practice or into a bad habit. Gybing when running out of wind produces very bad habits, which was my problem.

I had the old Carve Clinic videos by Peter Hart, which were very good. I think I still have them, but they might be in a rubbish box. I need to rescue them. I haven't needed them for years, but then I've had a few years off too, and I need to review a bunch of stuff.