Straight and proud? Politic correctness flipside

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wodgina6722
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11 Mar 2011 5:22pm
K Dog said...

doggie said...

K Dog said...

A lot of gen X girls, pushed by fem agenda sacrificed fam and kids for careers, and many are unhappy that they left it so late........

That's the flipside of that......


Dont even get me started on that


I shall continue.....

I remember at school a lot of focus to help the girls progress.... but seems it all backfired for quite a few..... not their fault... but the idiologies forced onto many, creating victums where there weren't, and telling people it was wrong to want to have kids and setup a nice family


Yep, I've seen it happen to girls around me, get sucked into the whole Sex in the City thing 'THEY CAN HAVE IT ALL'. They can sleep around, have a career and still land the Alpha male and have kids at 35.. Yeah right, they end up in debt, with an incurable STD, too overweight to land a good guy and end up on IVF spending thousands.

Ok, maybe not as bad as this but definetly know girls who have had these things happen to them
log man
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12 Mar 2011 2:17pm
Mark _australia said...

The quota thing sh!ts me badly. Why should we have to have x percentage of females in politics or whatever? If they are not interested in it let them be!

I can agree a little with having Muslims and Hindu's and whatever racial mix in the Govt departments as customers need to be able to approach somebody who understands etc. But why try and force a 1% Muslim and 10% Samoan and 2.3% Aboriginal employee mix in the fire brigade or Police or Army if they are not interested in applying?




Mark, so if they're "interested" is it OK. I don't know if your intentionally misrepresenting the situation or you really don't understand. So here's the argument: In an attempt to try to make society a fairer place for all citizens, schemes of "positive discrimination" or "quotas" or whatever have been used around the world to attempt to make workplaces an equal playing field. Women are discriminated against in the workplace. White, middle class, men are in the driving seat in the workplace, NOT women. Men are the dominant group in the boardroom NOT women. Women are discriminated against in the workplace through promotion , pay and expectation. Selection panels made up of men tend to select men for the job over equally credentialed women. Old predjudices have proven more difficult to end than once thought and I'm someone who wants to see a fair go for all members of society, aren't you? Surely you would want your wife or daughter to have the ability to fulfill they're talent, without having to cope with a UN level playing field. So Quotas could be a good thing, yeah?. Your idea that somehow unwilling women are pushed into the boardroom to accept the role of CEO even though they're "not interested" is just plain funny. And, sorry why can't we have Sikhs or Muslims in the police or the fire brigades? Would they're Turbans not fit under the fire helmets or something? I know, it must be very upsetting to you to have a female Governor General, but also for her to bring up Quotas for other women. But society moves forward for the better. I don't want to give you a migraine or anything but when will we have our first Muslim woman as Governor General
mineral1
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12 Mar 2011 11:27am
log man said...

Mark _australia said...

The quota thing sh!ts me badly. Why should we have to have x percentage of females in politics or whatever? If they are not interested in it let them be!

I can agree a little with having Muslims and Hindu's and whatever racial mix in the Govt departments as customers need to be able to approach somebody who understands etc. But why try and force a 1% Muslim and 10% Samoan and 2.3% Aboriginal employee mix in the fire brigade or Police or Army if they are not interested in applying?




Mark, so if they're "interested" is it OK. I don't know if your intentionally misrepresenting the situation or you really don't understand. So here's the argument: In an attempt to try to make society a fairer place for all citizens, schemes of "positive discrimination" or "quotas" or whatever have been used around the world to attempt to make workplaces an equal playing field. Women are discriminated against in the workplace. White, middle class, men are in the driving seat in the workplace, NOT women. Men are the dominant group in the boardroom NOT women. Women are discriminated against in the workplace through promotion , pay and expectation. Selection panels made up of men tend to select men for the job over equally credentialed women. Old predjudices have proven more difficult to end than once thought and I'm someone who wants to see a fair go for all members of society, aren't you? Surely you would want your wife or daughter to have the ability to fulfill they're talent, without having to cope with a UN level playing field. So Quotas could be a good thing, yeah?. Your idea that somehow unwilling women are pushed into the boardroom to accept the role of CEO even though they're "not interested" is just plain funny. And, sorry why can't we have Sikhs or Muslims in the police or the fire brigades? Would they're Turbans not fit under the fire helmets or something? I know, it must be very upsetting to you to have a female Governor General, but also for her to bring up Quotas for other women. But society moves forward for the better. I don't want to give you a migraine or anything but when will we have our first Muslim woman as Governor General


Hay Mark, dont take the bait, .......please. its only a rant I am sure[}:)]
japester
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12 Mar 2011 3:31pm
Something that I directly experience in the IT industry is a f*cked up culture that women do not want to be a part of.
It is sad and frustrating to watch the existing (men) people in a group change their behaviours, sometimes quite radically when women are working either nearby, or in the group.
It is no wonder that women do not want to be a part of this culture. The sad thing is, is that most of the incumbents do not want to change, because it suits them.

For examples of genuine ****ed up behaviours, we need to look no further than the regular assaults that happen at Linux Conferences - lwn.net/Articles/417952/


Back to the OP, if you want a mardi gras for straight people, organise it. Most of what I experience in today's AU culture, is that if you want something, then unless you run afoul of some law, it will be accepted.
Carantoc
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12 Mar 2011 7:58pm
Little Jon said...

doggie said...

Mark _australia said...



We are all equal but some are more equal than others


In a nutshell Mark, nice


Quote Animal Farm


Who said

'Equal opportunities may not result in equal outcomes'
Carantoc
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12 Mar 2011 8:00pm
K Dog said...

How about a mardigra for straight people?


I think it might be called a football riot
evlPanda
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12 Mar 2011 11:24pm
I agree man, windsurfers should have a mardi gras too.
evlPanda
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12 Mar 2011 11:26pm
... and those guys in the boats, and the landsailors too. Hell even the SUP guys.
evlPanda
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12 Mar 2011 11:27pm
... forgot the surfers and bodyboarders.
barn
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12 Mar 2011 8:31pm
Mark _australia said...

The quota thing sh!ts me badly. Why should we have to have x percentage of females in politics or whatever? If they are not interested in it let them be!

I can agree a little with having Muslims and Hindu's and whatever racial mix in the Govt departments as customers need to be able to approach somebody who understands etc. But why try and force a 1% Muslim and 10% Samoan and 2.3% Aboriginal employee mix in the fire brigade or Police or Army if they are not interested in applying?




Muslims and Hindus are not a racial mix, that's a Religious mix. Why does nobody get this.


ITT: poor oppressed white males, just wanting their fair share.


Worst forum ever.





evlPanda
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12 Mar 2011 11:34pm
"Well, we have to end apartheid for one. And slow down the nuclear arms race, stop terrorism and world hunger. We have to provide food and shelter for the homeless, and oppose racial discrimination and promote civil rights, while also promoting equal rights for women. We have to encourage a return to traditional moral values. Most importantly, we have to promote general social concern and less materialism in young people." - Bret
evlPanda
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12 Mar 2011 11:36pm
Also: I hate pride in people. In general.
Mark _australia
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13 Mar 2011 10:26am
log man said...

Mark _australia said...

The quota thing sh!ts me badly. Why should we have to have x percentage of females in politics or whatever? If they are not interested in it let them be!

I can agree a little with having Muslims and Hindu's and whatever racial mix in the Govt departments as customers need to be able to approach somebody who understands etc. But why try and force a 1% Muslim and 10% Samoan and 2.3% Aboriginal employee mix in the fire brigade or Police or Army if they are not interested in applying?




Mark, so if they're "interested" is it OK. I don't know if your intentionally misrepresenting the situation or you really don't understand. So here's the argument: In an attempt to try to make society a fairer place for all citizens, schemes of "positive discrimination" or "quotas" or whatever have been used around the world to attempt to make workplaces an equal playing field. Women are discriminated against in the workplace. White, middle class, men are in the driving seat in the workplace, NOT women. Men are the dominant group in the boardroom NOT women. Women are discriminated against in the workplace through promotion , pay and expectation. Selection panels made up of men tend to select men for the job over equally credentialed women. Old predjudices have proven more difficult to end than once thought and I'm someone who wants to see a fair go for all members of society, aren't you? Surely you would want your wife or daughter to have the ability to fulfill they're talent, without having to cope with a UN level playing field. So Quotas could be a good thing, yeah?. Your idea that somehow unwilling women are pushed into the boardroom to accept the role of CEO even though they're "not interested" is just plain funny. And, sorry why can't we have Sikhs or Muslims in the police or the fire brigades? Would they're Turbans not fit under the fire helmets or something? I know, it must be very upsetting to you to have a female Governor General, but also for her to bring up Quotas for other women. But society moves forward for the better. I don't want to give you a migraine or anything but when will we have our first Muslim woman as Governor General


Did you even read my post?
Where does it say we should not have Sikhs or Muslims in the armed forces or Police etc? What I DID say was just because they make up, say, 2% of the population, yet they do not constitute 2% of a certain occupation why try and force it? The current situation is the bleeding heart activist types whinge that we must be racist cos there is not 2% Sikhs in the Navy or whatever. Maybe they just don't bloody want to be in that job cos they are all too smart and make heaps of money playing with computers all day??

I don't care if the G-G is female - or black, white or yellow for that matter.
But if they legislate that 30% of boards must be female that is madness - they will at some stage have to promote the second or third placegetter in a promotional process to acheive that balance... ie fulfill their legal obligation - and that is not good for the company.

Logman you are yet another person who mistakes realism for racism (or sexism). Your ilk are allowed to have their opinion but anyone else's opinion is bigoted or racist apparently.

(PS sorry Mineral)
japie
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13 Mar 2011 3:21pm
Women are not equal to men.

Most people notice the fundemental differences, Doggie in particular.

Neither are men equal to women.

It is a funny old thing but nature has provided us with a system of reproduction which affects us to the degree that we have entirely different bodies. The notion of virgin birth is one thing but I cannot see males giving birth for a long time, nor even wanting to.

The actual design of women also, funnily, seems to lean toward their being instinctively more likely to nurture. Now I do not know that many CEO's but the ones that I did know could hardly be described as nurturers. Ghengis Khan's would be more accurate.

Developing quotas is a nonsense.

For those who think it is not have a look at the likes of the women who have suceeded in politics and ask yourelf if this is a good thing, Julia Gillard, Hillary Clinton, Margeret Thatcher ..........................

The reason it gets forced on people is because government is a nonsense.
doggie
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13 Mar 2011 1:08pm
Girls have thingies and boys have thingos, don't you people know anything?? (.).)
log man
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13 Mar 2011 7:21pm
Japie, your basis for approving or disapproving of Quotas is based on a woman you used to work with and she was Gengis Khan, so therefore Quotas are "a nonsense"............oaky doaky then. And the argument is not about the biology of the sexes it is about giving all people the opportunity to fulfill their abilities. At the moment we are saying to our children, no, your wasting your time trying to become a CEO ......because your female. Here's a stat for you: out of the top 200 companies in Australia only 6 of them have women as their CEO. That's not right, agreed?
mineral1
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13 Mar 2011 4:28pm
log man said...

Japie, your basis for approving or disapproving of Quotas is based on a woman you used to work with and she was Gengis Khan, so therefore Quotas are "a nonsense"............oaky doaky then. And the argument is not about the biology of the sexes it is about giving all people the opportunity to fulfill their abilities. At the moment we are saying to our children, no, your wasting your time trying to become a CEO ......because your female. Here's a stat for you: out of the top 200 companies in Australia only 6 of them have women as their CEO. That's not right, agreed?


Only if they done all the washing and ironing, along with cooking up some good tucker, should the be allowed into the board room
Stop dreaming logman your coffee is going cold[}:)]
log man
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13 Mar 2011 7:55pm
Mark _australia said...

log man said...

Mark _australia said...

The quota thing sh!ts me badly. Why should we have to have x percentage of females in politics or whatever? If they are not interested in it let them be!

I can agree a little with having Muslims and Hindu's and whatever racial mix in the Govt departments as customers need to be able to approach somebody who understands etc. But why try and force a 1% Muslim and 10% Samoan and 2.3% Aboriginal employee mix in the fire brigade or Police or Army if they are not interested in applying?




Mark, so if they're "interested" is it OK. I don't know if your intentionally misrepresenting the situation or you really don't understand. So here's the argument: In an attempt to try to make society a fairer place for all citizens, schemes of "positive discrimination" or "quotas" or whatever have been used around the world to attempt to make workplaces an equal playing field. Women are discriminated against in the workplace. White, middle class, men are in the driving seat in the workplace, NOT women. Men are the dominant group in the boardroom NOT women. Women are discriminated against in the workplace through promotion , pay and expectation. Selection panels made up of men tend to select men for the job over equally credentialed women. Old predjudices have proven more difficult to end than once thought and I'm someone who wants to see a fair go for all members of society, aren't you? Surely you would want your wife or daughter to have the ability to fulfill they're talent, without having to cope with a UN level playing field. So Quotas could be a good thing, yeah?. Your idea that somehow unwilling women are pushed into the boardroom to accept the role of CEO even though they're "not interested" is just plain funny. And, sorry why can't we have Sikhs or Muslims in the police or the fire brigades? Would they're Turbans not fit under the fire helmets or something? I know, it must be very upsetting to you to have a female Governor General, but also for her to bring up Quotas for other women. But society moves forward for the better. I don't want to give you a migraine or anything but when will we have our first Muslim woman as Governor General


Did you even read my post?
Where does it say we should not have Sikhs or Muslims in the armed forces or Police etc? What I DID say was just because they make up, say, 2% of the population, yet they do not constitute 2% of a certain occupation why try and force it? The current situation is the bleeding heart activist types whinge that we must be racist cos there is not 2% Sikhs in the Navy or whatever. Maybe they just don't bloody want to be in that job cos they are all too smart and make heaps of money playing with computers all day??

I don't care if the G-G is female - or black, white or yellow for that matter.
But if they legislate that 30% of boards must be female that is madness - they will at some stage have to promote the second or third placegetter in a promotional process to acheive that balance... ie fulfill their legal obligation - and that is not good for the company.

Logman you are yet another person who mistakes realism for racism (or sexism). Your ilk are allowed to have their opinion but anyone else's opinion is bigoted or racist apparently.

(PS sorry Mineral)


Mark, I think the Sikh or Muslim thing and the fire brigade is just a bit strange. NO ONE is suggesting there should be positive discrimination in the fire brigade or the Navy or whatever. And there are no government press gangs lurking around Mosques kidnapping Moosies and making them join the fire brigade. The whole point of quotas is to level the playing field. It is skewed badly at the moment, and it has been so for years. Your assertion that soon proper applicants will run short and women who are not up to scratch will get promotion seems a little hollow to me, lets see if that happens. I think there are plenty of women, well qualified, experienced, respected women that just get overlooked in the selection for boards and high management positions. Your assertion that I am "another person that mistakes realism for racism(sexism) is illuminating. It shows more about you that me, maybe. I'm definitely not going to just look at an issue of unfairness and just shrug my shoulders and go oh well that's just reality, that's just the way things are. We do have the ability to change course if we think something is unfair, don't we?
Carantoc
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13 Mar 2011 8:48pm
Hey log man - so your argument is that a person should be a CEO (or anything else) just because they are a woman ?

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13 Mar 2011 8:52pm
K Dog said...

How about a mardigra for straight people? Should we be proud? Is it wrong to say that?



Yes, something is wrong.

If you were straight, you would probably not want a Mardi-Gras

If you are proud to say you want a Mardi-Gras, then you are probably not straight.


A party, a carnival, a street parade for the kiddies, a riot or a piss up maybe - but not Mardi-Gras.
Carantoc
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13 Mar 2011 8:55pm
K Dog said...

How about a mardigra for straight people? Should we be proud? Is it wrong to say that?



Sorry, maybe I read this thread all wrong.

Are you asking if it is OK for you to watch all those scantily clad hot brazilian chicks at Mardi-Gras with a hard-on standing straight and proud ?

Gunna1
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16 Mar 2011 3:30pm
Back to the topic at hand, i really think those participating in the Mardi Gras don't do themselves or their cause any favours. Flaunting the extremes of their lifestyle would not help us "outsiders" to accept them any easier. Same goes really for anything extreme, except sports of course. I know that this will stir up the anything goes, fence sitters, who think anybody should be allowed to do anything, anytime, however there needs to be boundries, we all have them.
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16 Mar 2011 3:45pm
Gunna1 said...

Back to the topic at hand, i really think those participating in the Mardi Gras don't do themselves or their cause any favours. Flaunting the extremes of their lifestyle would not help us "outsiders" to accept them any easier. Same goes really for anything extreme, except sports of course. I know that this will stir up the anything goes, fence sitters, who think anybody should be allowed to do anything, anytime, however there needs to be boundries, we all have them.


Who cares, its once a year.
felixdcat
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16 Mar 2011 4:33pm
Carantoc said...

K Dog said...

How about a mardigra for straight people? Should we be proud? Is it wrong to say that?



Yes, something is wrong.

If you were straight, you would probably not want a Mardi-Gras

If you are proud to say you want a Mardi-Gras, then you are probably not straight.


A party, a carnival, a street parade for the kiddies, a riot or a piss up maybe - but not Mardi-Gras.


There is part of Europe (Germany, France, Italy, Belgium etc....) that have a very big Mardi-Gras in fact the party start the Friday b4 Mardi-Gras and finish at Midnite Mardi -Gras . It is the day before lent start and I remember that was THE party to go and it was not reserved for gays why did the gay Hijacked Mardi GRas????
doggie
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16 Mar 2011 4:43pm
felixdcat said...

Carantoc said...

K Dog said...

How about a mardigra for straight people? Should we be proud? Is it wrong to say that?



Yes, something is wrong.

If you were straight, you would probably not want a Mardi-Gras

If you are proud to say you want a Mardi-Gras, then you are probably not straight.


A party, a carnival, a street parade for the kiddies, a riot or a piss up maybe - but not Mardi-Gras.


There is part of Europe (Germany, France, Italy, Belgium etc....) that have a very big Mardi-Gras in fact the party start the Friday b4 Mardi-Gras and finish at Midnite Mardi -Gras . It is the day before lent start and I remember that was THE party to go and it was not reserved for gays why did the gay Hijacked Mardi GRas????


Because they like sparklie stuff and g,bangers
theDoctor
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16 Mar 2011 8:32pm


hey stupid people, its called and advertised as the GAY mardi gras...

yes mardi gras means carnival, traditionally held before lent as a last big festival before the fast

in bogan, sound bite, oi oi oi, culturally devoid australia, mardis gras might colloquially mean a bunch of fruits dancing down the street once a year

but

those of us can think and who are'nt jingoistic, chest beating, chinese made australian flag waving tools, with unit stickers on their cars understand this.

japie
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16 Mar 2011 10:09pm
log man said...

Japie, your basis for approving or disapproving of Quotas is based on a woman you used to work with and she was Gengis Khan, so therefore Quotas are "a nonsense"............oaky doaky then. And the argument is not about the biology of the sexes it is about giving all people the opportunity to fulfill their abilities. At the moment we are saying to our children, no, your wasting your time trying to become a CEO ......because your female. Here's a stat for you: out of the top 200 companies in Australia only 6 of them have women as their CEO. That's not right, agreed?


My basis for dissaproving of quotas is simply that we are putting laws into place in an attempt to over ride perceived ineqaulity.

I have no doubt that there would be plenty of advocates for male birthing if giving birth to children was seen as the ultimate in human achievement.

Why any woman, and indeed any right thinking man, would want to be seen as a champion of commerce, has got me beat.

Perhaps women cannot bring themselves to fark people over as readily as men. Surely that is not a good goal, to bring to the forefront and put on a pedestal those that are? Glad that I am not married to any of the six who have made it.
felixdcat
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16 Mar 2011 7:15pm
theDoctor said...



hey stupid people, its called and advertised as the GAY mardi gras...






Lets have the windsurfers Mardi-Gras then and reclaim what belongs to the us! the people!
Mark _australia
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16 Mar 2011 8:09pm
I have changed my opinion, logman et al have convinced me.

I look forward to 30% of women on company boards as proposed by the G-G and her mob

I also look forward to grano workers, shire hole diggers, lawn mowing contractors and roof tilers in the 40deg heat being 30% women ... as I imagine "equality" would mean the law applies to all occupations.




Bigwavedave
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16 Mar 2011 10:15pm
If I get passed over for a promotion because the boss has to fill a quota, can I sue for discrimination??

Equal opportunity means exactly that- equal.

The quota laws will not happen because of the risk of litigation.
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