girlfriend baby and dog all leave on the same day

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rhinoman
rhinoman
QLD
362 posts
QLD, 362 posts
7 Nov 2009 9:16am
build a bridge ....and i think i saw your dog with a couple of other dogs ass sniffing on the streets and pole pissing ,,,,,if you think it hurts now wait till child support start flooding you with bills and late fees.... thats when it kills cause your new kite is now on hold ,,,
theDoctor
theDoctor
NSW
5786 posts
NSW, 5786 posts
7 Nov 2009 11:38am


times a funny thing
h20fly
h20fly
WA
384 posts
WA, 384 posts
7 Nov 2009 9:26am
good news dog returned... bad news missus is coming around to pick up all her stuff today and most likely take all the furniture, still better than things getting ugly end of the day its just stuff.. i can always replace stuff cant replace the lil man
kiter77
kiter77
VIC
273 posts
VIC, 273 posts
7 Nov 2009 3:23pm
First 2 weeks the worst

Keep it friendly no mater what

R.S.V.P .com enjoy the experience !
rhinoman
rhinoman
QLD
362 posts
QLD, 362 posts
7 Nov 2009 2:30pm
ask her if you can pay child support to her privatly or it will be the biggest head ache if she goes through the goverment ...see the old saying if you love something then set it free if it loves you it will come back only this time it was a dog
h20fly said...

good news dog returned... bad news missus is coming around to pick up all her stuff today and most likely take all the furniture, still better than things getting ugly end of the day its just stuff.. i can always replace stuff cant replace the lil man


stabber
stabber
NSW
1114 posts
NSW, 1114 posts
7 Nov 2009 3:53pm
Do it privately!!! what a twat!....she'll take the money and in 3 years time say she never got a red cent!

don't listen to any bastard on here mate! especially that last one..
Skid
Skid
QLD
1499 posts
QLD, 1499 posts
7 Nov 2009 6:35pm
^^^ When you are able, talk to Child Support Australia (CSA) and get an understanding of the rules.
It IS possible to pay privately and still avoid the risk of BS claims later down the track.

If you want, PM me and I am happy to give you a heads up on some of the pitfalls to avoid.
rhinoman
rhinoman
QLD
362 posts
QLD, 362 posts
7 Nov 2009 8:18pm
thats why you pay it to her account and keep the reciepts its not rocket science like kite surfing is wait till you do your tax and then they say you you earnt more than you declared and your tax return that was going to your new kite but now its on its way to her anyway so when i say do it privatly its from years of letter after letter from CSA and recaculations on your income there left foot cant follow there right foot a differant case manager every time you ring there number is 131272 press 3 if you have an acccount enter your 12 digit account number then press hash this will help them seperate yo to a differant person each time you call make sure you notify them of any changes withing 14 day or you will encure a late fee for not tellling them of your change and they will take there late fees first before they give money to your child just like a bank intrest first there pocket before the childs mouth so do as stabber says dont listen to the twat, what do i know nothing but you will hate all those letters

lotofwind
lotofwind
NSW
6451 posts
NSW, 6451 posts
7 Nov 2009 10:50pm
^^^^^that was one long sentence.
mikeAUS146
mikeAUS146
WA
111 posts
WA, 111 posts
7 Nov 2009 9:28pm
SammyJ said...

Wrong site man, your looking for facebook I thinks.......


Hey SammyJ, I think to get your message across, and make sure he 100% understands, you should talk to him a Radio Communication Helmet. Word on the street is it's the only way to tell people things...
stabber
stabber
NSW
1114 posts
NSW, 1114 posts
8 Nov 2009 12:10pm
My appologies...It seems I am the twat in this case!

Maybe I shouldn't comment when I have not had that experience....again ...SOZ!

GalahOnTheBay
GalahOnTheBay
NSW
4188 posts
NSW, 4188 posts
8 Nov 2009 12:23pm
stabber said...

Do it privately!!! what a twat!....she'll take the money and in 3 years time say she never got a red cent!


I'm with stabber - cover your ass
h20fly
h20fly
WA
384 posts
WA, 384 posts
8 Nov 2009 11:58am
just worked out the payments.. its not as bad as i thought.. i thought it was straight 18% but its not i used the calculator.. i earn around 55k p.a and i pay around $5400 per year. if the ex.. god thats new to say.. if shes happy with it probably will go privatly till something goes wrong i guess... but im paying her via bank transfer so its all recordable so im covered i hope.. i will call them to make sure.
SammyJ
SammyJ
WA
571 posts
WA, 571 posts
8 Nov 2009 1:52pm
mikeAUS146 said...

SammyJ said...

Wrong site man, your looking for facebook I thinks.......


Hey SammyJ, I think to get your message across, and make sure he 100% understands, you should talk to him a Radio Communication Helmet. Word on the street is it's the only way to tell people things...


lol that's so funny, but don't give up your day job. The helmet thing wasn't a personal thing with Ben, he just chose to be defensive about how the buisness he works for tries to justify not using them just because they don't have them available to enhance the learning experience for their students.

Anyway back to Ben's issue, these private matters IMO should be discussed in person with family and friends. You know, the people that actually know you and your situation. Your friends can help by making you laugh, staying active to take your mind off things and when asked give you an honest opinion. Family can consol and be the ones you confide in.

Everyones different I suppose, we all have our stories. What do you want Laurie to do, make another catagory for everyone on seabreeze to seek advice from others that don't know them. FFS.

Ben, my sympathy goes out to you. Maybe go catch up with some friends, pop down and see Darren(seems he knows you well enough) I'm sure time will heal your hurt.
Murf1
Murf1
WA
256 posts
WA, 256 posts
8 Nov 2009 2:18pm
Why am i responding to this ? - waiting for the wind !
I don't think many have the "perfect" life, but these things make life new and interesting.
Just pickup the pieces, and your kite, cry on someone's shoulder (like you are), then stand up tall and move on !
you may very well find that "near" perfect life
don't forget your alias/motto - "H2OFLY!"

I was a counsellor, ONCE !

mf
hangtime
hangtime
NSW
397 posts
NSW, 397 posts
8 Nov 2009 7:12pm
Write a song about your situation, (country music background tune) Then play it backwards, You'll get your Dog, wife and child back!
westhammer
westhammer
WA
507 posts
WA, 507 posts
8 Nov 2009 9:42pm
Play it cool son,,Ya a bit livley on the CSA stuff that will work it self out in time, and wont be to bad for you on 55k and 1 child.Emotions run high on relationship breakdowns especally when kids are involved,but once you have sorted out your days with the kid on a regular basis things will fall in to place. I dont know your circumstances,whether you are right or wrong but at the end of the day,the kid has to come first,avoid all confontations in front of him.Its not easy to be a passionate waterman and maintain a relationship,its very hard to understand.
sebol
sebol
WA
753 posts
WA, 753 posts
8 Nov 2009 10:37pm
Forgive, Forget , Move on
dutchy1985
dutchy1985
213 posts
213 posts
9 Nov 2009 8:05am
Sometimes when I get lonely I cook myself a bacon explosion. Got the idea from "this is why you're fat .com"

Saffer
Saffer
VIC
4501 posts
VIC, 4501 posts
9 Nov 2009 11:13am
You get bacon flavoured coke in the USA. Perfect for drinking with your bacon explosion
assmaster
assmaster
WA
224 posts
WA, 224 posts
9 Nov 2009 9:41am
Sounds like you need to move country's.
getfunky
getfunky
WA
4485 posts
WA, 4485 posts
9 Nov 2009 11:51am
Tough gig.

Keep it as cool as poss. Sounds like you are wisely not attached to the consumables (smart) and more concerned with the kiddy (very smart).

Ignore some of the selfish tossers on this thread.

Hang in there and get on the water as much as possible.

Don't let the bad times creep up on ya.

Good luck.
h20fly
h20fly
WA
384 posts
WA, 384 posts
9 Nov 2009 12:16pm
cheers guys, shes being pretty good about it..actually didnt take as much stuff as i thought and really doesnt seem to want to restrict me seeing jax at all. I really hope this lasts.
staunchy
staunchy
WA
50 posts
WA, 50 posts
9 Nov 2009 12:46pm
good stuff brotheras i said s**t always gets better and we still got bout 5 months of some of the sickest conditions on this planet for a our beloved sport on da way!!!!!!!!!!!!something im just learning is to be in the moment and enjoy the little victorys as much as you can
getfunky
getfunky
WA
4485 posts
WA, 4485 posts
9 Nov 2009 12:51pm
^^^^^^^^Just put down the rifle ya cracker!!
staunchy
staunchy
WA
50 posts
WA, 50 posts
9 Nov 2009 1:09pm
hey i was born in texas giv me a breakif you didnt like the foto chek the crap i get now.mums aussie.try not to hold it against me[}:)]
staunchy
staunchy
WA
50 posts
WA, 50 posts
9 Nov 2009 1:24pm
also like to hold a fishing rod at times,bet your one of those dont hurt the "sea kitten"[}:)] types(check the PETA website re that).id rather get food myself than buy the crap on those poly trays YOU prob buy at the market
staunchy
staunchy
WA
50 posts
WA, 50 posts
9 Nov 2009 2:09pm
this for another thread or site really.but i hunt for the future not the freezer,by the way.am leavin the communications game to study marine science next year.....
Danger Mouse
Danger Mouse
WA
592 posts
WA, 592 posts
9 Nov 2009 2:28pm
GreenPat said...

djdojo said...

A good talk with a good friend will possibly be useful too.


Like Jim, Johnnie or Jack...


Here's a little quote from the side of a beer mug I once saw:

"I tried to drown my sorrows...... But the little buggers learned to swim"

Drinking doesn't solve a problem, if anything it only compounds them.
jacob1221
jacob1221
112 posts
112 posts
10 Nov 2009 4:39pm
lol unluckey but now u dont have to waist money on them any more so with all the leftover money go on a kite trip around australia
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