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craggers
craggers
WA
475 posts
WA, 475 posts
11 Jan 2011 8:03am
...started asking what sort of kite would be a good one for her last night.

is this the path to endless summers and shared salty joy, or will it be the loss of that greatest realm of personal freedom!??!?

at least now our (my!) quiver will expand, and i dont need to negotiate the finances for it!

...and she will be able to give up the gym yet have a great stomach and tight buns. im sold!
cramhobart
cramhobart
TAS
61 posts
TAS, 61 posts
11 Jan 2011 12:04pm
Got a mate thats a keen surfer, hooked up with a surfer girl and was the envy of all.
Fast forward a few years and a couple of tin lids and now he has to share water time/ daddy daycare so the misses gets her waves too, while the rest of us do our day care when the weather suits- proceed with caution.
Aorta
Aorta
VIC
244 posts
VIC, 244 posts
11 Jan 2011 12:08pm
cramhobart said...

Got a mate thats a keen surfer, hooked up with a surfer girl and was the envy of all.
Fast forward a few years and a couple of tin lids and now he has to share water time/ daddy daycare so the misses gets her waves too, while the rest of us do our day care when the weather suits- proceed with caution.


That there is some wisdom we should all take note of!
Plus a non kiting girlfriend can look after your gear on the beach while she is reading a book.... preferably a cook book.
punchy
punchy
WA
98 posts
WA, 98 posts
11 Jan 2011 11:54am
Not to mention the girlfriend is there to help launch and land kites and also provide you with a cold beer when you have finished. If you even train her properly you may be able to get her to pump up your kites for you.
Puetz
Puetz
NT
2186 posts
NT, 2186 posts
11 Jan 2011 1:50pm
... oh so true, but then again ... there is no more arguements on holiday destinations, you share the stoke at the end of the day, double the kites you own if you want to with out having to lie about it or you can share the kite quiver so therefore halving the quiver outlay, birthday or christmas presents are easy to organise, when the wind is up you don't have to bullsh!t the missus where your going, drinking with your mates at the beach til after dark is fully sanctioned ... yep, there are benifits!!

Buyer beware by the way !!!
Knickers
Knickers
WA
257 posts
WA, 257 posts
11 Jan 2011 12:46pm
Not only girlfriends-in my case non-kiting boyfriend has been expressing an interest in learning to kite. I even bought him a trainer kite for Christmas so we can see if he is serious.

Also not sure if this interest is good or not, as I quite like having my personal assistant (aka KiteBitch) sitting on the beach for said help with kite pumping, board changovers, beer handups and launch/lands and he quite likes hanging out with the numerous female personal assistants usually there .
myusernam
myusernam
QLD
6160 posts
QLD, 6160 posts
11 Jan 2011 3:25pm
women have a domestic brain and are much happier back at the nest baking and tending to the childeren. they may protest when they are younger but this is just some misguided ideal they get from daytime television.
Ozoned
Ozoned
NSW
58 posts
NSW, 58 posts
11 Jan 2011 4:32pm
punchy said...

Not to mention the girlfriend is there to help launch and land kites and also provide you with a cold beer when you have finished. If you even train her properly you may be able to get her to pump up your kites for you.


Yeah too true, my GF occaisionaly comes along and has food, and beer ready at the end of a session and also helps launch when no-one else around.
Was very handy when wind was light the other day, I did a decent down winder and she drove down to collect me rather than letting me walk back along the road.

But at least if you're partner is into kiting you can agree on holiday destinations and the right season.
wave knave
wave knave
306 posts
306 posts
11 Jan 2011 1:36pm
craggers said...

...started asking what sort of kite would be a good one for her last night.

is this the path to endless summers and shared salty joy, or will it be the loss of that greatest realm of personal freedom!??!?

at least now our (my!) quiver will expand, and i dont need to negotiate the finances for it!

...and she will be able to give up the gym yet have a great stomach and tight buns. im sold!



careful what you wish for..
So this is it...
This is what I wished for?
Just isn't how I envisioned it
Fame to the point of imprisonment...
I just thought the ****'d be different

Trant
Trant
NSW
601 posts
NSW, 601 posts
11 Jan 2011 5:27pm
Ozoned said...

punchy said...

Not to mention the girlfriend is there to help launch and land kites and also provide you with a cold beer when you have finished. If you even train her properly you may be able to get her to pump up your kites for you.


Yeah too true, my GF occaisionaly comes along and has food, and beer ready at the end of a session and also helps launch when no-one else around.
Was very handy when wind was light the other day, I did a decent down winder and she drove down to collect me rather than letting me walk back along the road.

But at least if you're partner is into kiting you can agree on holiday destinations and the right season.


I'm starting to think that I need to trade in my current model given the feedback on this thread.
raynef2005
raynef2005
QLD
161 posts
QLD, 161 posts
11 Jan 2011 4:39pm
My girlfriend surfs and is up on a kiteboard now. Pretty epic. All she wants to do is go on surf/kite trips with me. Going to bali in feb for a bit of a surf and kite trip. Its awesome having a girlfriend that enjoys the same things as you.

But there is one rule that seems to cause tears all the time...she is allowed to drop in on me but i'm not allowed to return the favour. Otherwise there will be sulks.
craggers
craggers
WA
475 posts
WA, 475 posts
11 Jan 2011 3:37pm
Got her a trainer kite for Christmas. well, actually i just wanted a trainer kite to play with waiting for the seabreeze at the beach... so i got her one for Christmas.

She thought it was sooooo sweet that i wanted her to join in my fun/obsession.

it has worked so far with the snow boarding thing... except that i want to go 'over there!! (points at black run balls deep powder), while she wants to go 'over there' (points at smooth groomed runs near the lifts, toilets and food and crowds).

thankfully she gets passionate about this type of thing, and organises/researches and generally obsesses over every detail (meaning i dont miss a single powder dump all winter).

zanzibar in july it is then! (yep, she has already found the cheapest/flatest/sandiest bottomest lagoonest/warmest place mentioned on the internet to do her 'learning week').

the biggest problem is going to be explaining why the 'pretty one' is not the ideal kite for her
stabber
stabber
NSW
1114 posts
NSW, 1114 posts
11 Jan 2011 6:40pm
Who wants stabber to teach them kiting?



But I can only do one lesson at a time!.... Fluck it!...I'll improvise.
kitegirl21
kitegirl21
NSW
439 posts
NSW, 439 posts
11 Jan 2011 8:18pm
stabber said...

Who wants stabber to teach them kiting?



But I can only do one lesson at a time!.... Fluck it!...I'll improvise.




Prawnhead
Prawnhead
NSW
1317 posts
NSW, 1317 posts
11 Jan 2011 9:00pm
ok if you are flat water kiter ..be prepared for some long swims/rescues and some tears if you like the waves......
ezza
ezza
NSW
561 posts
NSW, 561 posts
11 Jan 2011 9:42pm
Prawnhead said...

ok if you are flat water kiter ..be prepared for some long swims/rescues and some tears if you like the waves......


Honestly Prawn. Are you still crying about that time you lent me your surfboard and I let it float out to sea?


Edited to say: whoops, my bad.
Prawnhead
Prawnhead
NSW
1317 posts
NSW, 1317 posts
11 Jan 2011 9:57pm
only a little
Prawnhead
Prawnhead
NSW
1317 posts
NSW, 1317 posts
11 Jan 2011 10:00pm
and the north shore swim
ezza
ezza
NSW
561 posts
NSW, 561 posts
11 Jan 2011 10:10pm
Remember that time we drove all the way to the spot and we realized I'd forgotten my board? So you drove me back to get it.

And there was the time I left your safety on the island so you paddled over and got it.

More recently when my kite was floating seaward heading towards the deadly cungee in big swell and you paddled out and untangled it from the rocks.

Craggers - exercise caution; I can now kite pretty well, but Prawn nearly killed me on a number of occasions and I've spent a fortune on penalty cases of beer
Prawnhead
Prawnhead
NSW
1317 posts
NSW, 1317 posts
11 Jan 2011 10:16pm
see original post
cwamit
cwamit
WA
1194 posts
WA, 1194 posts
11 Jan 2011 7:19pm
putting on the Dr Phil hat for a moment,

relationships need time out and people need to have their own interests if your doing this for your own self interest then karma might come back atch ya.

sporty chicks are hot chicks whatever they enjoy doing IMHO , id rather have her out doing active stuff then taste testing her new recipe in a kitchen.. each to their own i guess.

main down side of sharing kites is you might have to keep an eye out for her for some time depending on her progression and conditions which can screw up your own stoke if your in it for personal enjoyment , considering kite surfing is one of those selfish water sports we all enjoy doing.


kitegirl21
kitegirl21
NSW
439 posts
NSW, 439 posts
11 Jan 2011 10:20pm
ezza said...
[br]Remember that time we drove all the way to the spot and we realized I'd forgotten my board? So you drove me back to get it.

And there was the time I left your safety on the island so you paddled over and got it.

More recently when my kite was floating seaward heading towards the deadly cungee in big swell and you paddled out and untangled it from the rocks.


Craggers - exercise caution; I can now kite pretty well, but Prawn nearly killed me on a number of occasions and I've spent a fortune on penalty cases of beer


awww cute, i want one
craggers
craggers
WA
475 posts
WA, 475 posts
11 Jan 2011 7:33pm
Ezza, Prawn.... are you two sitting next to each other having a talk over a forum!?!!?!

Sheeeeeeez. Share a kite, and it all gets awkward at home!? having doubts now....


ezza
ezza
NSW
561 posts
NSW, 561 posts
11 Jan 2011 10:40pm
He pretends it was a pain in the arse but I know he really enjoyed giving up all those days with great waves and NE'sters watching me body drag in the river and then dragging me back upwind by my harness. Good times
ezza
ezza
NSW
561 posts
NSW, 561 posts
11 Jan 2011 10:43pm
craggers said...

Ezza, Prawn.... are you two sitting next to each other having a talk over a forum!?!!?!

Sheeeeeeez. Share a kite, and it all gets awkward at home!? having doubts now....





Haha nope Craggers we broke up over a year ago but we still kite together.
AntoineS
AntoineS
NSW
122 posts
NSW, 122 posts
12 Jan 2011 12:15am
kitegirl21 said...

ezza said...
[br]Remember that time we drove all the way to the spot and we realized I'd forgotten my board? So you drove me back to get it.

And there was the time I left your safety on the island so you paddled over and got it.

More recently when my kite was floating seaward heading towards the deadly cungee in big swell and you paddled out and untangled it from the rocks.


Craggers - exercise caution; I can now kite pretty well, but Prawn nearly killed me on a number of occasions and I've spent a fortune on penalty cases of beer


awww cute, i want one



I'd love to apply for the position Holly!
Got all the qualifications needed (awarded with honours by kitemum49) but struggle to find a true meaning to my life on those crowded Sydney beaches. And I have a funny French accent too.
Where's your favorite spot?
Smithy
Smithy
VIC
859 posts
VIC, 859 posts
12 Jan 2011 12:23am
When I first met my wife I was stoked that she wanted to learn how to windsurf with me rather than bitch that I was always at the beach....

18 years later we have had 4 trips windsurfing and kiting together in Maui and countless other similar holidays, we have bought a house by the beach and she sends me texts at work when she sees a kite in the air....while she no longer kites or windsurfs she understands the buzz that we all get.

Life is good!!
kitegirl21
kitegirl21
NSW
439 posts
NSW, 439 posts
12 Jan 2011 8:43am
Tanos ur application is being considered! So long as u hav a heart beat n can kite Id b stoked. We may hav initial issues with ur French accent but I believe if u pump my kite n lay my lines out each time we would get past that!

Smithy ur life is awesome!!! Love it
Craig66
Craig66
NSW
2466 posts
NSW, 2466 posts
12 Jan 2011 8:55am
kitegirl21 said...

Tanos ur application is being considered! So long as u hav a heart beat n can kite Id b stoked. We may hav initial issues with ur French accent but I believe if u pump my kite n lay my lines out each time we would get past that!

Smithy ur life is awesome!!! Love it


Tanos, all would be good as long as you can understand english, (Holly will do most of the talking :) )
craggers
craggers
WA
475 posts
WA, 475 posts
12 Jan 2011 7:04am
ezza said...

craggers said...

Ezza, Prawn.... are you two sitting next to each other having a talk over a forum!?!!?!

Sheeeeeeez. Share a kite, and it all gets awkward at home!? having doubts now....





Haha nope Craggers we broke up over a year ago but we still kite together.



Really!!! Theres an exit clause!?!?! Ha ha!!! this might just work!!! you still get to use her kites on a howling day right?? any other "benefits" persist? this might just be the golden ticket!
GalahOnTheBay
GalahOnTheBay
NSW
4188 posts
NSW, 4188 posts
12 Jan 2011 11:06am
ezza said...

Prawn nearly killed me on a number of occasions and I've spent a fortune on penalty cases of beer


But if you are together technically isn't he also paying for the beer?

craggers said...

this might just work!!! you still get to use her kites on a howling day right?


Finally we get to the real question! lol

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