No Steve it was not me. I am on the other side of Woolwich, l used the expression - other side of the bay - loosely.
I am not being nice to you, you learned a lot since you started, since the Pittwater days, no doubt.
I feel sorry for you to stop racing and with it give up the "free schooling" !
Screaming and shouting on any yacht is undesirable and anyone with self respect and decency would frown upon it, but the rule is, what happenens on the yacht, stays on the yacht. No matter what has been said on deck it is, and should be looked over with grace and a smile.
Perhaps if you tried a different club, different environment, different crew ...? Not WAGS or SAGS, thou...