Mr Keen said..I got my other half on the water, she is not as enthusiastic but she understands....
A good woman if worth her weight in gear

A good strategy, when it works!
I actually married a sailboarder who was waay better at it than I was, but it didn't quite work out as he promptly lost interest in watersports.

Which is hugely disappointing. And I changed to kiting, but still have sailboards gathering dust.
He still sometimes warns me when conditions won't be good (but I don't listen

).
But at least he doesn't stop me from collecting more gear, as necessary. And I don't question his 'needs' to purchase whatever stuff he thinks necessary for his interests.
I hope it keeps working out well for you, as a shared passion makes for double the fun!