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Leech
Leech
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12 Jan 2009 12:48pm
I understand that there are instances where locking of topics is necessary.

But in the latest instance I think the wrong choice was made.

The first reason that was given for the closure was that it was causing arguments. Well if that's the case, let's be consistent. A LOT of topics on this site have people disagreeing with one another (Eg. seat harness vs waist harness, C kites vs bows etc). You'd better go lock them all too! If the arguments are turning into personal attacks then I can understand topic closure but if you can't have differences of opinion, you can't have a forum.

The second stated reason for closure was that it was not on the topic of windsurfing and should be discussed elsewhere. But seabreeze has become a community and as communities mature, they want to get to know each other better. In order to do that it is necessary to go beyond conversations of how windy it is. And when those conversations are conducted in a rational manner (or even when they're irrational but do not contain personal attacks ) They should be allowed. The community is what has made this site a success for members, sponsors and owners. But it's disappointing to realise how artificial it is. Big Brother is watching so make sure you don't go beyond small talk.

But the main thing that irks me about the closure of the topic in question is that a small group of members who were disinterested in the topic of conversation decided to fill it with spam and plead for it's closure. Why did they win? I'm totally disinterested in the GPS forum, I think it's irrelevant and "off topic" but if I went in there and spammed it and asked Laurie to close it, it would be my account that would be suspended, not the forum. If you're not interested in something that's posted on seabreeze, respect those that are and just don't read it. Don't spoil other people's fun just because it's not your thing. If you disagree with someone, post your reasons why, play fair and be nice. We can all get along without agreeing on everything.

Stop acting like a bunch of whingey primary school kids running to mummy. And "mummy", ignore the dobbers and let people get on with their conversations, please.
Wet Willy
Wet Willy
TAS
2317 posts
TAS, 2317 posts
12 Jan 2009 2:56pm
Laurie, please lock this thread. This has nothing to do with windsurfing.
sflack
sflack
VIC
574 posts
VIC, 574 posts
12 Jan 2009 3:37pm
yeh dude, totally agree with that statement.

I think everyone needs to relax a little bit, and take it easy!

my mum always said "if your not going to say anything nice, dont say it at all"
NR
NR
WA
517 posts
NR NR
WA, 517 posts
12 Jan 2009 1:39pm
How windy is it ?
sausage
sausage
QLD
4874 posts
QLD, 4874 posts
12 Jan 2009 3:04pm
NR said...

How windy is it ?


God only knows!

Actually, I totally concur with Leech's sentiments (even though I did request the thread to be locked)

Whilst people questioned why this was in the wavesailing forum, the most thoughtful answer came from Wave Knave
i'll just say God does work in mysterious waves.
Mark _australia
Mark _australia
WA
23687 posts
WA, 23687 posts
12 Jan 2009 2:19pm
sausage said...

NR said...

How windy is it ?


Whilst people questioned why this was in the wavesailing forum, the most thoughtful answer came from Wave Knave
i'll just say God does work in mysterious waves.



That was the trouble with Knobbie starting a thread he just knew would be debated fiercely and then deleting his original post... then it made no sense why it was in the wavesailing forum so people asked for it to be closed.

I enjoyed the vigorous debating in that one as it never got personal the main contributors played the ball not the man
nobbie
nobbie
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44 posts
WA, 44 posts
12 Jan 2009 3:12pm
WINDY MILLER
WINDY MILLER
WA
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12 Jan 2009 4:19pm
not windy enuff NR - back to work, u need to save up some $$$
mkseven
mkseven
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2315 posts
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12 Jan 2009 5:26pm
In this age of repetitive threads it was good to have a decent adult discussion, with some good views from both sides and most likely a good outcome in that it makes either side consider the alternative on it's merits.

Aside from the useless crap that was posted (sorry elmo lost respect for you over that one) the thread didn't require moderating. To those with nothing better to do than go into a thread and whinge or if you may find the subject offensive... DON'T READ IT, stick to the millionth how to seperate a 2 piece mast thread or should I get sail A or sail B .

Surprisingly the SEARCH nazi's haven't taken off on this forum compared to others, it's only a matter of time with the stuff that gets churned over and over again.

At the end of the day there probably isn't one of the people who constructively contributed in that thread which wouldn't sit down, have a beer/whatever and a yarn after a good day's windsurfing which is what the community is all about.
windwarning
windwarning
VIC
600 posts
VIC, 600 posts
12 Jan 2009 7:09pm
I think seabreeze is a good site but with forums I think it is the most stricked site I have ever joined. One little thing wrong and your posts is locked. Arguments will happen. I have seen some way worse fights in forums from other sites outside seabreeze. And i cant believe people on here cant take a joke at all. Windsurfing is just a fun sport, why not have a bit of a joke on a windsurf forum when ya bored and theres no wind.

Dont look so sad, put a smile on ya face i say

Cheers, windwarning
Leech
Leech
WA
1933 posts
WA, 1933 posts
12 Jan 2009 5:20pm
I agree, mk7, I gained respect for every person who stood up and contributed thoughtfully, whether I agreed with them or not.

All in all, I think it was a good experience

Next time I'm in Qld I'll take u up on the offer for the post-sail yarn (I'll buy the beer).
Greenroom
Greenroom
WA
7608 posts
WA, 7608 posts
12 Jan 2009 5:34pm
Yeah what was up with Elmo? Is he the new moderator?
elizabethb
elizabethb
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2081 posts
QLD, 2081 posts
12 Jan 2009 6:55pm
I decided early on to not take part in any religious discussions if it seems that peoples personal beliefs are questioned. I did read the thread in discussion, and found it turn into more of an argument and personal belief bashing rather than an open-ended discussion.

The difference between a successful ethical, moral, political or religious thread, is to not directly state that another’s viewpoint is incorrect, rather suggest another viewpoint and pose a question that could deem their statement unethical. Etc.

I can say that the recent post Willy, Decrepit, Mark and I contributed to, could easily have ended in a ‘b!tch argument’, but it is all about accepting anothers opinion, reflecting and adding your viewpoint to theirs!

www.seabreeze.com.au/forums/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=45933

Not blowing our own horn, but that is the most successful discussion I’ve ever had on SB!
sharkbiscuit
sharkbiscuit
820 posts
820 posts
12 Jan 2009 6:10pm
I was wondering if it would be a good idea to add an "off topic" section ?. Other
than that, off topic threads don't botther me. I just don't open them.

Poltics wise, I think this is an excellent site. Users are very well manored, helpful
and grown up (compared to some other types of forums).
laurie
laurie
QLD
3902 posts
QLD, 3902 posts
12 Jan 2009 7:23pm
leech said...
But in the latest instance I think the wrong choice was made.
...
Well if that's the case, let's be consistent. A LOT of topics on this site have people disagreeing with one another (Eg. seat harness vs waist harness, C kites vs bows etc). You'd better go lock them all too!


Sorry you feel let down leech, I do the best I can with what I have. As they say, "you can't please all the people, all the time".

I'd also like to suggest that debating religion is completely different from a seat -vs- waist harness debate.

Never in the history of these forums has a topic about religion ended peacefully, and that's why it was locked - before it got out of control - they all started off as fun banter.

leech said...if I went in there and spammed it and asked Laurie to close it, it would be my account that would be suspended...

But it's disappointing to realise how artificial it is. Big Brother is watching so make sure you don't go beyond small talk


Steady oh .. getting a bit carried away there. If you spam as in "Nokia phones for $85", yeah - your login will be suspended.

Me suspending your account for you asking me to close a topic? Drawing a long bow there.

If you want to go beyond the small talk (exlcluding religion/politics), you can do it here, or in General Discussion. If the topic sucks, the "community" will be all over it long before I am!

windwarning said...
I think seabreeze is a good site but with forums I think it is the most stricked site I have ever joined. One little thing wrong and your posts is locked.


10 locked out of 9640 topics over 5 years ... locked topics are pretty rare.

For everybody, this forum is great, and is one of the least administered out of all of the forums because everybody gets along great, and always has done, and I'm sure will continue to!

Let's live for today, for tonight we have to go to bed!*

Onwards & Upwards!


* individual experience may vary
laurie
laurie
QLD
3902 posts
QLD, 3902 posts
12 Jan 2009 7:26pm
sharkbiscuit said...

I was wondering if it would be a good idea to add an "off topic" section ?.


There is one - it's called (lamely) "General Discussion"

www.seabreeze.com.au/forums/forum.asp?FORUM_ID=3

lalalamort
lalalamort
NSW
160 posts
NSW, 160 posts
12 Jan 2009 8:36pm
I don't see the point in locking debates on religion....if you are offended, then simply do not post again or look in that thread. If you don't want to be questioned then don't read it.
Mark _australia
Mark _australia
WA
23687 posts
WA, 23687 posts
12 Jan 2009 7:14pm
laurie said...

10 locked out of 9640 topics over 5 years ... locked topics are pretty rare.



Really? I agreed with what Leech said but geez only 10 in 5 yrs. I reckon we have seen HALF those in the last year. I can remember at least 3!!!
That, perhaps, is a sad indictment on how this site is going maybe there is too much b1tching and fighting going on.
So what has changed in the last 5 yrs? Oh yeah, kiters.

Yes the last part was a joke guys n gals...
Susie
Susie
SA
837 posts
SA, 837 posts
12 Jan 2009 9:10pm
I don't know, maybe I only see the glass half full. I didn't see any fighting or arguing going on in that topic. I did see healthy debate. I agree with Leech. The fact that there was so many views and so many contributors made it obviously an interesting read. It didn't need to be locked, just moved to the general forum imho.
Then only those interested in the topic would need to read it.
Elizabeth B made a good point here
"The difference between a successful ethical, moral, political or religious thread, is to not directly state that another’s viewpoint is incorrect, rather suggest another viewpoint and pose a question that could deem their statement unethical. Etc."
Questions are a good learning tool. We can all learn more. Every day. Otherwise we don't grow as human beings.

Sailhack
Sailhack
VIC
5000 posts
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12 Jan 2009 10:21pm
elizabethb said...

Not blowing our own horn, but that is the most successful discussion I’ve ever had on SB!


Successful discussion.......or a battle over trying to prove who is the more intellectual?

(sorry guys, but I was about 4 posts in on that thread and I couldn't hear from all the egos screaming!)


BTW, keep it up....I'm all for a good debate....I'll just pick'n'choose which ones I'm interested in if that's ok?

[edit] Oh, I forgot, I did enjoy spearsy and NotWal's contributions!

mkseven
mkseven
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2315 posts
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12 Jan 2009 9:50pm
Cmon enough of this cotton wool world, people naturally attempt to prove others wrong or sway their opinion- that is life.

We're all adults and its an internet forum, people should know to agree to disagree.

I found the kidney debate a little hard to follow as there was no clearly opposed views, I didn't really apply the attention the thread probably deserved though.

Laurie in general great job, but unlike things such as the old fishing forum the nerds thread should have been left alone. There were minor instances where personal comments where made, or some took it personally but it went back on track rather quick and was only spoiled by those without constructive comments.
Greenroom
Greenroom
WA
7608 posts
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12 Jan 2009 8:56pm
Im with you on that one Sailhack. I read the first few posts and decided it was way outta my league... BORING
And according to my 3 and 6 year olds, you are all a bunch of stinky bum heads
Richiefish
Richiefish
QLD
5612 posts
QLD, 5612 posts
12 Jan 2009 9:58pm


Successful discussion.......or a battle over trying to prove who is the more intellectual?

(sorry guys, but I was about 4 posts in on that thread and I couldn't hear from all the egos screaming!)







I read a fair bit of it after it was locked and got the same impression...
elmo
elmo
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8894 posts
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12 Jan 2009 10:11pm


Oh I feel so guilty

What you saw was the limits of my protests re the subject (no behind the scenes emails flags or red thumbs), there were a number of people beforehand who called the same for the topic to be canned including Loz.

IMHO Religious arguments discussions (changed for you intellectuals out there) pretty much always end badly no matter hat the good intentions, this is not something which can be put aside like politics or whether Kiting is better than windsurfing, what you are discussing is someones core beliefs ie what they are.

Science can not prove that God does not exist, just the same as quoting the bible or believing that God exists cannot prove Gods existence as well. Sh1t I think I may have posted that somewhere before.

If you have God in your life, good on you.
If you don't have God in your life , good on you to.


If you need God in your Wave sailing forum, then you need to get out and do some more Wave sailing so you have something more relevant (to the forum) to discuss.


And Nobbie

You're a gutless wonder for firing the gun and then changing your post


So if you don't like my posts, sorry but tough, hang me. I got more serious sh1te (real) on my plate at the moment.

My final word on the matter.
Good winds and all that

Alby
greenleader
greenleader
QLD
5283 posts
QLD, 5283 posts
12 Jan 2009 11:28pm
anyways, time to turn the lights off kids!

mkseven
mkseven
QLD
2315 posts
QLD, 2315 posts
13 Jan 2009 3:07am
elmo said...
Oh I feel so guilty

What you saw was the limits of my protests re the subject (no behind the scenes emails flags or red thumbs), there were a number of people beforehand who called the same for the topic to be canned including Loz.



So you made a conscience decision to purposely read a thread which you knew you wouldn't like, confirmed to yourself you do not like the content and then saw fit to protest and spam it?
elmo
elmo
WA
8894 posts
WA, 8894 posts
13 Jan 2009 8:42am
Exacerly, just like the other people who did the same but with different measures.

It's just I know how to effectively cut and paste on 2 posts.

You could always take up the debate at your next parent teacher night at your kids school if you wanted a more enthusiastic debate
laurie
laurie
QLD
3902 posts
QLD, 3902 posts
13 Jan 2009 11:11am
Fair enough .. the topic is unlocked .. go for your life ...
laurie
laurie
QLD
3902 posts
QLD, 3902 posts
13 Jan 2009 11:12am
lalalamort said...

I don't see the point in locking debates on religion....if you are offended, then simply do not post again or look in that thread. If you don't want to be questioned then don't read it.


If only it were so simple....
Wet Willy
Wet Willy
TAS
2317 posts
TAS, 2317 posts
13 Jan 2009 1:06pm
I actually think we exited the discussion just in the nick of time, even though I was enjoying it.

The problem was, some people, not naming names, couldn't seem to discuss the points being made or the reasons given; they just spat the dummy and said "well, that's your opinion", and went off in a huff. There was no need to act that way, honestly if you can't back up your beliefs with some kind of reasoning, you might want to question why you hold them in the first place.

example:

A LOGICAL ARGUMENT would go something like this: "Even if you can establish the existence of God, you can't automatically infer that the Bible is His word." (Which is a valid point actually)

An OPINION would be something more like "The Bible is not God's word".

I hope the difference is clear.

"You're wrong!" "No, you're wrong!" "No, YOU are!" is no way to go. Give reasons, please!


mkseven
mkseven
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2315 posts
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13 Jan 2009 12:10pm
Leech said...


Next time I'm in Qld I'll take u up on the offer for the post-sail yarn (I'll buy the beer).


Thats cause you don't like queensland beer ay

Elmo no taking that debate to the school isn't necessary. I made a decision to give my kids what I believed is the best start in life, which unfortunately I feel is outside the ability of the public school system. I did actually make their principal aware that I felt that way in the application interview and that I was not pro-religion. It is up to them to make their own decision's whether they follow faith or not when they are old enough and wise enough to make an informed argument for or against.
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