I'm about 7 sessions in on an Infiniti 84cm - 48cm Stabiliser - B position, on the 71cm mast (28"). I'm on a Naish Hover 110L for the board, and on an Echo 5m wing - around 80kg.
I initially started with the foil mounted all the way forward as I had seen suggested in many places, but I found the foil acted exactly as you described behind the boat - where if I managed to get the foil flying, it would be flying in a 'nose up' attitude, and would quickly completely stall out and the board would fall back to the water.
The problem was that the foil was way too far forward. I have now moved the foil almost completely to the back of the Naish tracks, and even then, I'm only just on the verge of being able to have my front foot where the foot-straps are supposed to be (I'm not using the straps at the moment).
I can get going in around 12 knots, but it can be a bit of a struggle at the lower end. By 15-16 knots though, it pretty much jumps up on the foil by itself. The Infiniti 84 can be almost standing still in jibes, and it doesn't stall out - the only time I have experienced the stalls was when I initially had the foil way too far forward.
My first 2-3 sessions completely sucked, because I thought 'pumping' the wing meant trying to force the board to get up to flying speed, and then 'pumping the foil' with your back foot so the foil will take off (as you mentioned getting up to takeoff speed behind the boat). That is extremely difficult to do, especially in marginal wind. What changed everything for me was seeing a video where a guy showed a technique where he is basically trying to get all his weight off the board, so the foil can lift itself and the board out of the water (so you are using the Wing to take as much of your weight as possible, while also getting some lateral speed). Once the board comes out of the water, then you can pump the foil and use the Wing to give you further momentum across the water. Once I started doing this, anything over 12 knots became reasonably easy for me to get going in.
With the Infiniti 84cm, once it has risen like that, it's almost like having a platform under you, so I imagine the 99cm is going to give heaps more.
This was the video I was referring to above - he went even further where he was using the 'pop' from submerging the board to lift the foil out.
www.seabreeze.com.au/forums/Wing-Foiling/Wind-Wings/Low-wind-foil-Winging-on-lakesKeep at it... It's definitely worth it, and your gear should be fine once you sort out where everything needs to go. Obviously, your board is different to mine, so I'm not saying you need to move your mast right back, but the symptoms you were describing sound similar to what I was experiencing.