Windows Explorer/OSX Finder?
I know it's maybe not as slick as the thing you are imagining but it can order by date.
Choose your thumbnail/preview size.
Right click to share, email, copy, print etc. etc.
Tag your files too:
www.techrepublic.com/blog/windows-and-office/tag-your-files-for-easier-searches-in-windows-7/Seriously. It ticks all the boxes you have listed.