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Wahine
Wahine
32 posts
32 posts
9 Aug 2012 9:35pm
I know this is not a singles web site. I have not ever used one and would never dream of putting myself on one. But I am tired of getting tangled up with guys who are not remotely interested in the things I love. Who do not share my values. Guys I have little in common with who pressure me to stay away from salt water and wind. Pressure me to spend my weekends on the couch watching TV when it's blowing 25 knots. Pressure me to spend all my holidays shopping and sight seeing when Maui and WA are out there. I decided it is much better to be alone and I tried that for a while. But I believe in love. In sharing the things that you love with someone you love. And in passion and warmth and affection and honesty and fidelity. Do those things not exist anymore? In life and joy and making the most of every moment. I live in a small town and work lots so have next to zero chance of meeting anyone, let alone someone who shares my passions. I feel like a desperate loser to write this. Do I just have to let it go? To accept that the love I dream of doesn't exist? To accept that my options are to shelve the things I love and believe in or be alone? I don't want to believe that.
Scotty88
Scotty88
4214 posts
4214 posts
9 Aug 2012 9:46pm
WARNING- gee up and multiple profile.
Wahine
Wahine
32 posts
32 posts
9 Aug 2012 9:52pm
Scotty88 said...

WARNING- gee up and multiple profile.


Not sure what this means. Guilty of too many wines and a cheesey post I am already regretting, but sadly completely honest.
BulldogPup
BulldogPup
6657 posts
6657 posts
9 Aug 2012 10:06pm
mmmmmm cheese toasties and a good red
Pitbull
Pitbull
WA
1267 posts
WA, 1267 posts
9 Aug 2012 10:12pm
Wahine said...

I know this is not a singles web site. I have not ever used one and would never dream of putting myself on one. But I am tired of getting tangled up with guys who are not remotely interested in the things I love. Who do not share my values. Guys I have little in common with who pressure me to stay away from salt water and wind. Pressure me to spend my weekends on the couch watching TV when it's blowing 25 knots. Pressure me to spend all my holidays shopping and sight seeing when Maui and WA are out there. I decided it is much better to be alone and I tried that for a while. But I believe in love. In sharing the things that you love with someone you love. And in passion and warmth and affection and honesty and fidelity. Do those things not exist anymore? In life and joy and making the most of every moment. I live in a small town and work lots so have next to zero chance of meeting anyone, let alone someone who shares my passions. I feel like a desperate loser to write this. Do I just have to let it go? To accept that the love I dream of doesn't exist? To accept that my options are to shelve the things I love and believe in or be alone? I don't want to believe that.


Love to help you out but I don't think my wife would let me.
Mark _australia
Mark _australia
WA
23695 posts
WA, 23695 posts
9 Aug 2012 10:39pm
Damn. Was loving it until you got to the fidelity part.

(My stereo is not very good quality)
cisco
cisco
QLD
12365 posts
QLD, 12365 posts
10 Aug 2012 1:35am
Wahine said...

I know this is not a singles web site. I have not ever used one and would never dream of putting myself on one. But I am tired of getting tangled up with guys who are not remotely interested in the things I love. Who do not share my values. Guys I have little in common with who pressure me to stay away from salt water and wind. Pressure me to spend my weekends on the couch watching TV when it's blowing 25 knots. Pressure me to spend all my holidays shopping and sight seeing when Maui and WA are out there. I decided it is much better to be alone and I tried that for a while. But I believe in love. In sharing the things that you love with someone you love. And in passion and warmth and affection and honesty and fidelity. Do those things not exist anymore? In life and joy and making the most of every moment. I live in a small town and work lots so have next to zero chance of meeting anyone, let alone someone who shares my passions. I feel like a desperate loser to write this. Do I just have to let it go? To accept that the love I dream of doesn't exist? To accept that my options are to shelve the things I love and believe in or be alone? I don't want to believe that.


Does the guy get to have any choices in what you and he do together??

Test pilot 1
Test pilot 1
WA
1430 posts
WA, 1430 posts
10 Aug 2012 12:17am
He'll do as he is told and like it!
Wahine
Wahine
32 posts
32 posts
10 Aug 2012 5:02am
cisco said...

Does the guy get to have any choices in what you and he do together??



I didn't mean it to sound so one sided. I would never stand in the way of someone doing something they love. I meant both share the things you love with each other instead of either person having to shelve the things they love. Just thought how cool it would be if you both love or at least are open to the same things so you could share it together.

Note to self - Seabreeze is for wind sport advice only. In moments of weakness when needing other advice, stay away from forums and go to bed.
Scotty88
Scotty88
4214 posts
4214 posts
10 Aug 2012 5:28am
Are you reading '50 Shades of Grey' ?
chrispychru
chrispychru
QLD
7932 posts
QLD, 7932 posts
10 Aug 2012 8:03am
i love, love i love chicken drumsticks as well...i love slurpies filled with tequila with a shot off magic gum more than most things good luck girl,but there is heaps of stuff to love in life...im glad my girl doesnt want to surf or skate bowls with me. thats my time to re-invigorate my soul and go back to her as a better more attentive slave...

oh if you have a car, a job and all your teeth i will leave my girl to be with you
tightlines
tightlines
WA
3509 posts
WA, 3509 posts
10 Aug 2012 6:09am
Scotty88 said...

Are you reading '50 Shades of Grey' ?




If not Wahine you can come over to my place and read my copy, I haven't actually got one ATM but I will have by the time you get here, and maybe a bottle of wine or two.

Seriously though it can be a problem finding someone that shares your passion or at least allows you to persue it, my last real girl friend pretty much gave me the choice my kites, SUP's etc or her.......damn I miss her.
Chris6791
Chris6791
WA
3271 posts
WA, 3271 posts
10 Aug 2012 3:27pm
Wahine said...

I know this is not a singles web site.


You'd be surprised, a lot of the blokes on here might as well be single over summer given the amount of time they spend on the water, or perpetually on Seabreeze keeping an eye on the forecast
Wahine
Wahine
32 posts
32 posts
10 Aug 2012 4:09pm
Chris6791 said...

You'd be surprised, a lot of the blokes on here might as well be single over summer given the amount of time they spend on the water, or perpetually on Seabreeze keeping an eye on the forecast


Maybe I should start stalking sailing and kiting spots? Try some 'accidental' collisions on the water? Seek manly help to rig up and launch even though I don't need it?
Mark _australia
Mark _australia
WA
23695 posts
WA, 23695 posts
10 Aug 2012 4:26pm
Come to WA for summer, and stay with guys who live at different classic spots. Free accom, lots of time on water.

What's not to like?
doggie
doggie
WA
15849 posts
WA, 15849 posts
10 Aug 2012 4:26pm
Wahine said...

Chris6791 said...

You'd be surprised, a lot of the blokes on here might as well be single over summer given the amount of time they spend on the water, or perpetually on Seabreeze keeping an eye on the forecast


Maybe I should start stalking sailing and kiting spots? Try some 'accidental' collisions on the water? Seek manly help to rig up and launch even though I don't need it?


How you doin
Mobydisc
Mobydisc
NSW
9029 posts
NSW, 9029 posts
10 Aug 2012 6:37pm
I would have thought wind sports are a great way to meet blokes. Usually the ratio of boys to girls out windsurfing or kiting is about 20 or more to 1.

Anyway good luck with it. Most of the blokes I know from windsurfing are in relationships.
dusta
dusta
WA
2940 posts
WA, 2940 posts
10 Aug 2012 4:47pm
got facebook ?
Smithy
Smithy
VIC
859 posts
VIC, 859 posts
10 Aug 2012 7:34pm
Brand new member with now real details, brand new posting.... Brand new Troll...

Sounds like a 65 year old, 300kg bloke to me...
doggie
doggie
WA
15849 posts
WA, 15849 posts
10 Aug 2012 5:36pm
Smithy said...

Brand new member with now real details, brand new posting.... Brand new Troll...

Sounds like a 65 year old, 300kg bloke to me...




Smithy
Smithy
VIC
859 posts
VIC, 859 posts
10 Aug 2012 7:39pm
^ that's the one, classic...
Chris6791
Chris6791
WA
3271 posts
WA, 3271 posts
10 Aug 2012 5:46pm
Wahine said...

Chris6791 said...

You'd be surprised, a lot of the blokes on here might as well be single over summer given the amount of time they spend on the water, or perpetually on Seabreeze keeping an eye on the forecast


Maybe I should start stalking sailing and kiting spots? Try some 'accidental' collisions on the water? Seek manly help to rig up and launch even though I don't need it?


That's more in the spirit. When you come to west oz on that holiday be sure to crash into a guy flying core kites. I'll let you buy me a drink after
tmurray
tmurray
WA
485 posts
WA, 485 posts
10 Aug 2012 7:10pm
If you're a girl and you kitesurf, and you want to pick up male kitesurfers merely stepping onto a beach carrying a kite, board and pump should do the trick.
Suprised you haven't worked this out already.
busterwa
busterwa
3782 posts
3782 posts
10 Aug 2012 7:23pm
www.oasis.com/
Go there and start a profile with your interest's !!! worked for me i have been going out with a Saftey bay skank for the last 2 years couldnt be happier (she dosent have kids btw) .. P.s She dosent windsurf but lets me!!!
lotofwind
lotofwind
NSW
6451 posts
NSW, 6451 posts
10 Aug 2012 9:53pm
We always new Mark had a second alias log in,
now it seems he has a third, he has found a new way to prey on young kitersLOL


Either that or it could be the guy from "Hey Dad"
Wahine
Wahine
32 posts
32 posts
10 Aug 2012 8:49pm
Skeptics

What if I am actually telling the truth? Live in a small town. Rarely if ever see anyone else kite or sail? Never see another sailor who is a) within 25 years of my age or b) single?

Maybe the east coast is actually my problem
Wahine
Wahine
32 posts
32 posts
10 Aug 2012 8:54pm
Read my first post. Would anyone actually fake a message to sound so desperate and emotional?? So embarrassing. I wish I was a 600kg 70 year old having a big laugh right now.
BabaORiley
BabaORiley
WA
434 posts
WA, 434 posts
10 Aug 2012 9:05pm
Hi Wahine, lovely name.


If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain.
If you're not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain.
If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape.
You're the love that I've looked for, come with me, and escape
Chris6791
Chris6791
WA
3271 posts
WA, 3271 posts
10 Aug 2012 9:38pm
busterwa said...

www.oasis.com/
Go there and start a profile with your interest's !!! worked for me i have been going out with a Saftey bay skank for the last 2 years couldnt be happier (she dosent have kids btw) .. P.s She dosent windsurf but lets me!!!


Sounds like true love Buster.
BulldogPup
BulldogPup
6657 posts
6657 posts
10 Aug 2012 9:43pm
Wahine said...

Read my first post. Would anyone actually fake a message to sound so desperate and emotional?? So embarrassing. I wish I was a 600kg 70 year old having a big laugh right now.


here ya go gal - hope you enjoy

Subsonic
Subsonic
WA
3425 posts
WA, 3425 posts
10 Aug 2012 10:30pm
doggie said...

Wahine said...

Chris6791 said...

You'd be surprised, a lot of the blokes on here might as well be single over summer given the amount of time they spend on the water, or perpetually on Seabreeze keeping an eye on the forecast


Maybe I should start stalking sailing and kiting spots? Try some 'accidental' collisions on the water? Seek manly help to rig up and launch even though I don't need it?


How you doin





What female could possibly resist a face like that?

He's either thinking "I think im in love!" or "the doc didn't tell me he was gonna put his finger there!"


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