Thanks for sharing this Christian, its not something we talk about enough.... I kinda feel media descriptions tend to do the sport a disservice when they use the phrase 'very experienced kiter'. I've seen a few deaths in 20+ years of kiting, including good friends, and they have generally been in the intermediate category - getting good enough to be taking more risks and being out in more extreme conditions, but not yet 100% aware of the consequence of those risks.
Maybe that's a gross generalisation but what I have experienced anyway.
In terms of what will kill you - it can basically be summarised as a) being male and b) blunt force trauma :
bjsm.bmj.com/content/51/4/360.2So if you can't stop being male then wear a helmet and an impact vest is your best mitigation.
As Christian says, being comfortable with your safety so that this is automatic and fluid is paramount. There is rarely a situation that doesn't give you a few seconds before you reach something really hard. If you don't have this kind of distance then you probably shouldn't be kiting there, or should be acutely aware of the risk you are taking on.
When I first get a new kite, I stand in the water and pull the safety from 12. That gets rid of the hesitation as to what the hell happens if you do it, and if you do it in the water you don't have to watch your new kite crashing into the beach when you're practicing.
Then on a LIGHT day, I lie on my stomach on the sand with my hands on the bar, and pull the safety (this is the position you will end up in if your kite is low and things go to **** - you will be dragging along in the sand and will need to bring your hands down to the release, locate it and pull it). Then I do the same thing lying on my back (which is another way you will get ragdolled).
That may sound excessive, but i am still here to preach it. It is a world of difference from the pulling your safety while standing upright. I have had to pull my safety on a few occasions and I am absolutely confident that i can do so quickly, and will do so without hesitating when i need to. If you don't have that belief, then you will do what looks to have happened in this video- try and hold on and death grip the bar instead of releasing.
@weebitbreezy - if you pull the safety your leash will quickly resolve this situation. if there are people nearby a kite falls lazily on someone's head rather than bashing into them with power. it is really hard to get into a situation where you need to pull your leash as well - generally it is only when you're in the water and the kite is pulling you under in big swell. in which case it will generally stay down! while theoretically possible i haven't seen a disconnected kite tangle someone up and cause injury - maybe Christian has hanging around at beginner beaches... a bigger risk is the kite tangling with another kite (basically what happened to Silke Gordt in 2002 and the reason we have safety releases now).
stay safe, mahalo