Ive been going down there to surf for the last 8 or 9 years. my parents have a house around there and I usually go down every big southly swell during winter. sorry not going to give you much about the waves. im sure you will find em

. Getting heaps crowded these days. Easter sunday had about 30 cars at a certain point break. In winter though I can go 3 or 4 days of epic waves without seeing a single person in the water
Havnt been kiting for long but was down there the last 2 weeks and I was able to kite 5 out of 10 days.
Marlin hotel usually goes off on a friday/sat nights

Never seen anyone kiting but I usually go south of ulludulla.