Wrong site man, your looking for facebook I thinks.......

Not sure if I have said it before or perhaps just thought it, BUT djdojo you are way too intelligent to be hanging around in these circles. It's only going to dumb you down.

If she had taken the kites it would mean that she wanted you back.

Mate, look on the positive side, you will be kiting more often now!

h20fly said...

my girlfriend leaves me takes aour lil boy, then my dog runs away all on the same day.. had to be on a weekend with no wind NEeD TO KITE!!!

Sounds like you could compose a country and western song.

GreenPat said...

djdojo said...

A good talk with a good friend will possibly be useful too.

Like Jim, Johnnie or Jack...

As Homer (the American one) said, "Now there's a temporary solution!"

GreenPat said...

djdojo said...

A good talk with a good friend will possibly be useful too.

Like Jim, Johnnie or Jack...

You forgot Jose...

Hey Ben,

Sorry to hear of your misfortune. That sux! Don't worry about the woman, if she doesn't see your worth, then she isn't worth pining over and likely never was. The baby and the dog are the real tragedy in this one.

Look for the good in this event. Events or happenings, only take on a negative or positive meaning when we decide to apply a label of meaning to it, before then it has no meaning, it's just an event. So if you look at this event as a profound learning moment then you will take away a completely different meaning from it and as Djdojo says, you'll grow emotionally and spiritually.

In terms of the events of your entire life, this is another bump. Look for the learning in it, it may be hard to see from your current perspective, but look for it and you'll find it.

Leave the grog, it won't help, it'll just add a nasty hangover on top as the situation will still be there when you eventually sober up.

Cheers mate,

KH

PS. Love your philosophy dojo

Kitehard said...

The baby and the dog are the real tragedy in this one.

lol.
Kitehard and DJ, the forum-shrinks. ^^^
All their psycho-babble about someones relationship of which they know zero.
Hey, let me take a wild guess too.
She probably caught you lying and cheating, dude...
or she found herself a better root.

will someone please remove that disgusting, insensitive comment from slave. Unbelievable that anyone could be that insensitive.
And why would you?

puppetonastring said...

will someone please remove that disgusting, insensitive comment from slave. Unbelievable that anyone could be that insensitive.
And why would you?

slave is right though, people are commenting on a relationship they know nothing about.
maybe old mate treated her badly and she had enough and left him. maybe he kicked the dog every day.

2 sides to every story

waveslave said...

Kitehard said...

The baby and the dog are the real tragedy in this one.

lol.
Kitehard and DJ, the forum-shrinks. ^^^
All their psycho-babble about someones relationship of which they know zero.
Hey, let me take a wild guess too.
She probably caught you lying and cheating, dude...
or she found herself a better root.

Back to one of my favourite pastimes - picking up Waveslave when he is talking 5h!t:
1) KH opens up with Ben, so we must assume he knows H20, and therefore knows at least a little bit more than "zero"
2) you criticise KH and DJ for commenting on something about which they "know zero", and then you proceed to add your own 2 cents worth.
Back to the crank sites for you Slave ...

worst is yet to come.

she comes back.
reads all the posts
declares all your kiting mates as degenerate insensitive Aholes.
bans you from associating with them.

NO MORE KITING.

Ben,
Sorry to hear of your grief.
I have been through a similar situation (athough I did get to keep the dog).
Dojo & kitehard are on the money and I doubt I can improve on their comments. Talk it over with friends/family and just remember that even though your world may be falling around your ears, it WILL get better. Sometimes life brings us the lessons we need to learn, even the hard ones.

Kite when you can, and with every boost, leave behind a little bit of pain and bitterness in your wake. Avoid feeding the bitterness, as it only serves to poison you.

Some people say that time heals all wounds; but (and you probably won't be in the head space to hear this) it is actually forgiveness that heals.

It will be hard to see at the moment, but you are at the start of a pathway to growth; if you choose....

Good luck

Sorry to hear.
You should buy a harmonica and play some blues.

dont know what up but im going to take your post as it says.life is f**ked at times.but things ALWAYS improve.i ve been places where it feels like that sh**ty tunnel never has light at the end,but some how it always sparks up again,ALWAYS....maybe there is a joke going on i dont get, but if kite hard sounds like he does i think he knows whats up.some times a chat with "strangers"is helpful.i would like to think this site is not just a place to talk kite and give fun sh*ite.there may come a time i may say something the same.you just gota filter the pr*ick comments mate....jim and becks do help but only for a bit....me and those boys have had long chats!!![}:)].at the end of the day its the chats with yourself that make the difference.chin up mate