r u serious dude you speak perfect english and then suddenly get worse just take lessons and get accredited by the iko

Welcome to the sport dude. first of all 60 kgs is not that bad. I'm only about 68 kgs and I fly everything in all winds.

About flying the kite. I strongly suggest you fly your kite on the beach for hours to get the feel for it. Start by just flying the kite back and forth slowly. After a short while you'll feel confident and start flying it more aggressively. doing figure eights and match the pull from the kite by using your bodyweight and movements. Later on when you feel confident enough you can even run back and forth and get the feeling for jumping. It's GREAT fun and great for your abs. 30 mins of that is like 2000 pushups. Also by doing this you will crash a few times, land backwards and stuff and it's good to learn not to panic in these situations and start pulling randomly on the bar cause then things can go terribly terribly wrong very fast.

After you feel confident about that you can start body-dragging. Go out in the water and just fly the **** out of the kite like you did on the beach. You'll get absolutely drenched and swallow water, get disoriented and everything. This is great practice being able to keep the kite flying and controlled. I see sooo many people that crash their kite as soon as they fall of their board when trying to learn to ride it. There is NO EXCUSE for crashing your kite just because you wipe-out. Remember that, you should always be able to keep the kite in the air if you wipe-out.

Remember you steer the kite like a bike as in you pull the bar toward and away from you, not up and down.

Good luck with everything and I'll see you on the beaches dude

I'm 40kg and I ride a 7m waroo.

also - one of the main caused of accidents, is not setting up your kite correctly..
Make sure you check the lines are tangle free, and each line is on the right place it should be on. there should be no tangles, or crossed lines. make sure the bridal is not caught on a wing tip or over the kite. Believe me - its easy to do this when you are excited and the wind is blowing.
check and double check your lines. develop a system that suits you, and stick to it.

before launching your kite, know exactly where your quick release is, and what you would do if you get into trouble.

dont kite where there are lots of people about.
find nice big empty beaches.
the more open space down wind from you. the better.

a 7m. i about 66kgs and ride a 12 m 7 m is my small kite, i suggest you ask heap the locals to find out the best wind conditions and which wind should be best for somen learning