my boyfriend loves kites more than he loves me

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amin
amin
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10 Feb 2009 8:46pm
i know he loves me but he seems to love kitesurfing more. hes even spending valentines kitesurfing..
i havent tried it yet.. i want to coz i will hopefully end up with the same addiction as him..
does he love it more than he loves me? or does it just seem that way?
flemboyant
flemboyant
VIC
375 posts
VIC, 375 posts
10 Feb 2009 8:51pm
honestley, he probably loves his kite more than u. but, his kite cant cook, so he should stick around
lotofwind
lotofwind
NSW
6451 posts
NSW, 6451 posts
10 Feb 2009 8:52pm
If you can satisfy him as much as kiteing does,he will love you more
waxman
waxman
SA
1390 posts
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10 Feb 2009 8:25pm
Its hard to tell need more information. what kites, boards has he got, Where does he ride and what are the weather conditions like when he leaves you for a kite. Also need more info on you please included photos etc. People will then be able to better answer your question.

Fore most kiters the wind is a very harsh mistress when she calls you have to go, there is just no other choice.
olga
olga
3 posts
3 posts
10 Feb 2009 7:03pm
I have the same problem amin. My man used to only want me for one thing and he could never get enough of it, but he doesn't even do that any more. He prefers kitesurfing.

Is it true what they say? Kitesurfing makes you ghey?

amin
amin
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12 posts
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10 Feb 2009 9:05pm
hes got a cabrinah switchblade 10m a best 7m and a cabrinah something 14m .. um a cabrinah board and yeah he goes whenever he can
amin
amin
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10 Feb 2009 9:09pm
HA. i hoope it doesnt make him gay..
anyway eventually (when i have enough money) ill be taking up kite surfing too and then maybe we can share the obsession..

you still with ur man?
olga
olga
3 posts
3 posts
10 Feb 2009 7:15pm
meh, sort of.
theDoctor
theDoctor
NSW
5786 posts
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10 Feb 2009 9:16pm
face it, women are soul destroying, life force sapping succubuss' (series three south park).

the question isn't, 'does my boyfriend love kites more than me...?'

after listening to your whinney, insecure and selfish attention seeking rant.
the question should be.... 'why wouldn't he......?'

no matter which way that you look at it, valentines day is just a greeting card marketing mumbo jumbo and succubuss ploy to further drain the life force and crush the soul of the already brow beaten and disallusioned male.

besides, what are you doin out of the kitchen anyway
windpig
windpig
QLD
113 posts
QLD, 113 posts
10 Feb 2009 8:17pm
A bit of both works fine (definately not gay)old bloke
elmo
elmo
WA
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10 Feb 2009 7:26pm
amin said...

i know he loves me but he seems to love kitesurfing more. hes even spending valentines kitesurfing..
i havent tried it yet.. i want to coz i will hopefully end up with the same addiction as him..
does he love it more than he loves me? or does it just seem that way?


Try it, then when you ditch him to go on a kiting odyssey he'll fully understand and be cool about it
elizabethb
elizabethb
QLD
2081 posts
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10 Feb 2009 8:38pm
He definately loves kiting more than he loves you! [}:)]
Unless you pump his kite up, drive him to and from the beach, set up his lines, launch him, hand him a beer when he wants one and give him endless pleasure and stoke! [}:)]
Then he loves kiting more!

Got to say I am the same way!
amin
amin
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12 posts
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10 Feb 2009 9:53pm
so ur a girl addicted to kiting?
truthfully i dont care if he loves it more.. just as long as he loves me too
Smedg
Smedg
NSW
836 posts
NSW, 836 posts
10 Feb 2009 10:06pm
I'd worry when there is no wind and he decides to go for a roller blade..
elizabethb
elizabethb
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10 Feb 2009 9:33pm
amin said...

so ur a girl addicted to kiting?
truthfully i dont care if he loves it more.. just as long as he loves me too



Sure am addicted!

Ahhh I'm just mucking around with you! Of course he loves you, just understand that kiting is addictive! [}:)] Your life soon becomes kiting. lol
myusernam
myusernam
QLD
6160 posts
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10 Feb 2009 10:05pm
try this

After a hard day's kiting greet him with a kiss and tell him to sit down in front of the telly. Bring him out a few ice cold imported beers (you can put them in the freezer 1/2 an hour or so before you expect him home) and then tell him dinner wont be long and that your'e just putting the finishing touches on it - his favourite. Then after a nice dinner and a few wines say something like "i'll do the washing up tomorrow - can we just go to bed, i'm a bit frisky" Keep that up for a few weeks and then even suggest a weekend trip up the coast camping at a few choice kitespots whilst you read a few books or sunbake etc. It sounds chauvanisitic but once you've got him hooked then you can ever so slowly turn the balance of power untill one day he'll wake up and wonder when he stopped wearing the pants in the relationship.
kitebored
kitebored
NSW
594 posts
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10 Feb 2009 11:23pm
myusernam said...

try this

After a hard day's kiting greet him with a kiss and tell him to sit down in front of the telly. Bring him out a few ice cold imported beers (you can put them in the freezer 1/2 an hour or so before you expect him home) and then tell him dinner wont be long and that your'e just putting the finishing touches on it - his favourite. Then after a nice dinner and a few wines say something like "i'll do the washing up tomorrow - can we just go to bed, i'm a bit frisky" Keep that up for a few weeks and then even suggest a weekend trip up the coast camping at a few choice kitespots whilst you read a few books or sunbake etc. It sounds chauvanisitic but once you've got him hooked then you can ever so slowly turn the balance of power untill one day he'll wake up and wonder when he stopped wearing the pants in the relationship.



That'd definitely work for me.. (assuming by turn the balance of power you mean
cook more meals and go on more kiting weekends!)
SmellySkater
SmellySkater
110 posts
110 posts
10 Feb 2009 9:38pm
amin said...

i know he loves me but he seems to love kitesurfing more. hes even spending valentines kitesurfing..
i havent tried it yet.. i want to coz i will hopefully end up with the same addiction as him..
does he love it more than he loves me? or does it just seem that way?


It's valentines day, it's not your birthday and he can't go kiting at night so let the boy kite then catch up with him after.
Wet Willy
Wet Willy
TAS
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10 Feb 2009 11:43pm
How many of you have been assuming that the original poster is female?
SmellySkater
SmellySkater
110 posts
110 posts
10 Feb 2009 9:46pm
Wet Willy said...

How many of you have been assuming that the original poster is female?


I think you're right on the money wet willy
myusernam
myusernam
QLD
6160 posts
QLD, 6160 posts
10 Feb 2009 10:47pm
Wet Willy said...

How many of you have been assuming that the original poster is female?


just because you're a poley doen't mean everyone else is
Gorgo
Gorgo
VIC
5127 posts
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11 Feb 2009 12:11am
Don't worry about it. The sea breeze doesn't kick in until the afternoon and he can't really kite at night. You've got all night and half the next morning to give him what kiting can't. Just don't forget his coffee around 10:30. That would be criminal.
Kalavas
Kalavas
WA
146 posts
WA, 146 posts
10 Feb 2009 10:42pm
amin said...

i know he loves me but he seems to love kitesurfing more. hes even spending valentines kitesurfing..
i havent tried it yet.. i want to coz i will hopefully end up with the same addiction as him..
does he love it more than he loves me? or does it just seem that way?


The correct answer to this question, in all its forms, is to learn to kite.
waxman
waxman
SA
1390 posts
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11 Feb 2009 12:54am
amin said...

hes got a cabrinah switchblade 10m a best 7m and a cabrinah something 14m .. um a cabrinah board and yeah he goes whenever he can


Yeah we have a couple of guys here in whyalla that ride switchblades and it is true they are gay.. so i can safely answer your queston yes he loves kiting more!

On the upside there are plenty of people riding FOne Bandits that are straight up streight and would love you long time. Only a few days to valentimes day now so just jump on one could be the love of your life.
westhammer
westhammer
WA
507 posts
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11 Feb 2009 12:59am
As i masseurd her all over ,the call of the wild outside was to mucha rush job and a hoax call ..it was all over when i got homenow ??Sweet as a nut...............................................Case
gruezi
gruezi
WA
3464 posts
WA, 3464 posts
11 Feb 2009 1:42am
Love is hyped....work out a deal that works for you both...sort of what you are being told above in a round about way.
sandgroper
sandgroper
WA
368 posts
WA, 368 posts
11 Feb 2009 5:32am
amin said...
does he love it more than he loves me? or does it just seem that way?


Its a "no-brainer". He loves it more than he loves you. Dump him. He's no good. He'll only hurt you. Leave him before its too late and you end up kiting too.

Charl dv
Charl dv
WA
2485 posts
WA, 2485 posts
11 Feb 2009 11:22am
kiting with a gf would be a stupid idea. i say suck it up and keep the kitchen tidy.
superlizard
superlizard
VIC
702 posts
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11 Feb 2009 1:26pm
he loves you more off season, and he loves you less during the season, so when you average it out over one year, he loves you equally... (it's just that he will get very grumpy off season)...
Smedg
Smedg
NSW
836 posts
NSW, 836 posts
11 Feb 2009 1:29pm
He loves you because you understand how much he NEEDS to kites.
tmiddled
tmiddled
NSW
253 posts
NSW, 253 posts
11 Feb 2009 1:34pm
My girl always whinges that I don't spend enough time with her, and too much with my kiting obsession. I don't get it.

I spend a maximum of 2 or 3 hours a day of kiting, and only in the summer, and ONLY when there is wind (most days this summer :), but I spend nearly 7 hours a night with her sleeping, plus I sit next to her at nights when I'm on seabreeze and youtube looking at kiting, and she still whinges. Geeze, what more do they want??
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