Hey mate- I'm 53 kgs, and I try to always ride my 10m Cab Element because I am so comfortable with it's safety, turning, and it's perfectly tuned to 'my' riding style.
Up until about two months ago, I was only able to hold this up to about 17 knots, but since beaing able to stay fully upwind, get some jumps in, and just plain experience, I can happily hold this in up to 23 knot winds

(same weight as I was before and with my 140 labrat, but could hold more with a smaller board), and have learnt how to fully depower my kite, and how to work it when it's in underpowered conditions. The best thing you can do, is listen to what the other guys say, and in time, the more you get out there, the more you will be able to hold down, and the more fun you'll have...


Enjoy the winds if you have them!