Hi Kitegrab,
Your post is good, and the onus is definitely on the kiter to look after themselves and have all the bases covered. Unfortunately, in most parts of the world, we have some really dumb instructors who do not teach correctly or safely. It is not entirely the kiters fault. I mean, you don't know, what you don't know.
Instructors who think that teaching kiting is about getting people up on the board and planing as soon as possible are a bad joke.
When I hear instructors bragging about how they got a student up and riding in one lesson, I make a mental note to never hire that person and to steer clear of them if I ever see them on the water.
If all instructors focused on the "real" job of teaching students to kite safely and be prepared for any eventuality as well as to be totally self sufficient ie, accept but not rely on others to get them out of sticky situations, we'd have amuch safer sport for everyone.
Until such time, we will see many, many, incidences where people are needlessly hurt or worse.
Message to ALL instructors: Your job is not to teach students how to ride, they will figure that out by themselves as a result of the other stuff you should be teaching them. Your job is to arm them with the knowledge and ability to foresee danger, to act decisively under pressure, unconsciously, and be prepared for anything that may happen when on the water or the beach.
The amount of il/partially trained kiters that come to my school after up to 10 lessons with other schools or instructors, is disgraceful and I am angered to think this happens daily for something so trivial as a fast buck. You know who you are. Shame on you all!

DM