Davereid said..
My quesiton is how to learn to identify when i am choking the kite - if at all?
"Choking" the kite is when you are pulling the back of the kite so hard that the kite stops acting like a wing and now starts acting like a billowed sheet catching the wind (like a spinnaker). You will still feel like there is power, but the kite isn't really functioning correctly. Choking the kite typically happens at your low wind range because you have the kite trimmed for maximum power (front of the kite further away) and you are pulling the bar all the way in (back of the kite closer to you).
Knowing exactly how far you can pull the bar in before choking the kite depends on the kite model, kite size, and kite speed through the air (the slower the kite is moving the more chance you have of choking it). In extreme cases, you can choke the kite into a backstall (where the kite flies backwards), but usually it feels like the kite is just bogging down.
It takes a while to get used to the feeling of your kite flying properly, so especially in the beginning it's hard to pick up that the kite is being choked compared to just not having enough wind to fly properly. As a practice, try flying the kite with it trimmed 1/2 way in on a low wind day. That way you are very unlikely to choke the kite, but will need to work harder in generating enough power to get up & going. Flying the kite faster should generate power from lift (like a wing) rather than just catching the air.
HTH