i've made bridles for both my 9 and 12m kites with no problems and the wear is really good. head down to a sailing shop, there is one at the marina between outer harbour and largs. or even glascraft. i don't know what the lines are called, but they are cored, like the flying lines.
usually go thicker than the standard bridle lines. alot of line wear is from side movement through the pulleys. take your kite in and run the different sizes through the pulleys, look for the best fit. usually about 5 mm line for the bridle pulleys.
while your there get some splicing thread. just sew the loops... and you're done.