Hey Bubble7777, I have about 5 tell-tales on the leech of the main that extend past the end of the sail. When the sail is set correctly, these little fellow stand straight out. If I bring the main in, they tend to fold back away from the centre line of the boat (for want of a better reference point) and if I ease the main too much then they tend to curl back in towards the centre line of the boat.
Its a bit like reading the luff on a head sail when you compare the tellt-ales on both side of the sail. But with having them on the leech of the main, the one tell tail in each location is influenced by air from both sides of the sail.
Disclaimer. Probably wrong again but works well on my boat.

And beside, in any discussion "The Captain is always right"
One problem with boat that heave big overlapping head sails is that they are unable to read the Main Sail Luff due to the head sail influence. This is why you need to have the tell-tails on the leech to set the sail correctly.