JosephBetts said..supthecreek said..
I made a career out of avoiding day jobs.
Started in restaurants, eventually to bartender.
Great job to travel the world, work at night, meet people and surf all day.
when everyone else is spending money.... you are making it.
You are the sober one, so nights are fun!
Then..... got tired of traveling and looking for jobs, so I opened my own bar.
Surf is the priority.... everything else has to flow around it.
Note: I had 2 kids, 2 houses, 2 businesses and a wife.
I had every day off to be with my family, so surfing never got in the way of that.
Everything else could wait. Everything got done.... but always on my schedule.
Surfing lifestyle is a choice and a commitment.
So far, so good.
How did you handle the wife's expectations around not having a permanent job? (Business instead of permanent work) and what was it like running a business compared to working for someone else?
IMO, The only way to have a "permanent job" is to work for yourself.
Bosses can fire you, cut overhead, reduce workforce... all during economic slow downs..... which will happen repeatedly during your working life.
When it's your business, you dig deeper, work smarter and control your own destiny (and income)
Working for myself was always the only answer. I love it.
Businesses I started, all grew from frustration of working for others or simply acting on opportunity when it presents itself.
I never had a partner.... decisions are not decisions, they are compromises.
Many decisions I made in 30 years of business would have been impossible to fully relay to a partner..... many times it's more just your internal "gut" feeling that resets the sails during rough weather. That doesn't happen as effectively if you have to "prove" your case.
When you work for yourself, you unlock your creative juices.... it ceases to become work.
My wife never worried about my businesses, she knew I was a surfbum when she married me
Life isn't about the money.... it's about what you do with the time you are given.
Follow your heart and the money will work itself out...... unless you put the money first.
Opportunity brushes you throughout your life....
it's a shame to let it pass you by, because you have someone else's schedule to keep.