Sandman,
As others have mentioned you may want to consider using Chicago bolts (Binding Barrels) instead of the threaded inserts. They should be stronger and I think they also can be aligned better during installation. It was also previously mentioned that several other manufacturers use them including AFS.
You don't have to drill an 8.5 mm hole through the remainder of the fuselage. It only has to be large enough for the 7.5 mm diameter barrel to pass through. As I mentioned above you can probably use the wing as your drill template. Carefully align the wing on top of the fuselage and clamp it with one or two small C-clamps. Find a drill bit that is about the same diameter as holes in the wing and carefully drill through the fuselage. You mentioned that the hole are already 90% through the fuselage so there isn't very much material to remove. The clearance hole in the wing may be slightly less than the Binding Barrel diameter. If so just use a slightly larger drill bit after removing the wing to increase the hole size. Ideally you should be able to insert the insert with a light bit of pressure. McMaster has about every size drill bit that you could possibly need.
Since the Binding Barrels will carry a partial load without the epoxy you should be able to install the wing to check the barrel alignment before applying the epoxy. If necessary you can slightly increase the hole sizes for better alignment.
One poster on your other thread gave some good advise. "Rough the inserts really well with a dremel or similar, soak in acetone for an hour, blow off and repeat. That's the only way to really ensure no oils.."
Install the Binding barrels using the Six10 epoxy. You can also put a bit under the heads if the surface is slightly rounded or if any of the surface fibers were damaged during drilling. Clean up any excess adhesive from around the barrel head and tape over the head to hold it against the fuselage. Also wipe up any excessive resin from the surface where the wing mates. You may want to screw a waxed fastener into the barrels to prevent the epoxy from getting on the threads. As alternative you could also place a layer of thin Mylar packing tape over the fuselage surface where the wing make contact and cut out the holes with a razor blade for the screws to pass through. Installing an over sized washer with a short waxed M6 waxed screw would also keep the barrel in place.
To further ensure the alignment you could also install the wing before epoxy has cured. Lay one strip of thin Mylar packing tape on the wing where the fuselage makes contact and cut out the screw holes. With the barrel heads taped firmly to the fuselage, attach the wing using waxed screws and lightly tighten them. Leave them installed until the epoxy has cured.
Ideally you want the barrels to be the length as the fuselage depth. McMaster sells Binding Barrels in 316 stainless with an M6 thread in a variety of lengths so you can come close to matching your fuselage thickness. If they are a bit too long you can add a 6mm washer under the Binding Barrel head. Typical stainless steel washer are about 1.5mm thick. You can also grind or file off a bit off the length. Shorten them before installation to avoid generating excessive heat that could damage the epoxy bond. Check the threads after grinding and clean them with a tap if necessary.
Super-Corrosion-Resistant 316 Stainless Steel Binding Barrels