So first step is getting the female inserts straight, used a 100 mm M6 screw to do that. Used a hex key at first, but was worried it could damage the threads, the 100 mm M6 screw gave enough leverage to straighten out the worst insert, in the center position. After straightening on top, before on bottom, both screws were fully threaded into the insert. Actually bent the 100 mm M6 screws straightening out the inserts, all are now straight.
Second step is to pour epoxy into the inserts and use a screw wrapped in teflon tape to force the epoxy into the cavity below the inserts.
Third step is to screw a 40 mm flat head screw into the insert and use a vise to press the screw/insert back into the fuselage, while hopefully forcing the epoxy up and around the outside of the now slightly loose inserts.
Last step, screw wing onto fuselage with still soft epoxy, to make sure everything is aligned properly. There should be enough resistance on the inserts to keep them in the fuselage while I screw the wing on, without tightening up the screws, but enough to seat the wing. Will use two levels to make sure wing is parallel with stabilizer (wing on one level, stabilizer on the other level). Will probably grease screws for this step, teflon tape may cause to much resistance and turn the inserts..
Any comments welcome, looks like I am on my own on this repair.