Hardie Hey trust me it is just as bad down here. The wave is often a short section and more than 10 ppl out is a handful. When the euro's lob in it can be downright scary...... we are more than happy to share waves if they'd at least say G'day and also realise that if you give a bloke a wave he'll give you one 5 min later. It was no probs till 3 or 4 years ago but like anywhere it gets busier.
Dunno about you haveing no good spots. I used to sail the place now and then that sounds like a Toyota or a bird and it can be pretty damned fine.
Elmo let me know when you do come down. Even if you are short on gear due to space restrictions, may be able to help out.
Bring two pairs of undies if you go for a sail in winter